How long should i wait ?

So I’ve met someone with the same occupation as me, pretty much me but in boy form...
I really want to get to know him and I’ve been trying! Messaging him etc. Sometimes he seems cold but he just works a lot like I do, has two jobs so I understand. I got it out of him that he’s a gentleman and doesn’t think of sex as sex but as making love and I told him I’m a virgin. And I was worried cause most guys I’ve spoke too don’t like it... but he said he didn’t mind in fact he said ‘I don’t think it’s weird, making love to someone who hasn’t experience anything quite like it would be special surely’ and we even exchanged a couple of naughty photos .

Anyway we aren’t messaging at the moment but if he’s interested he’ll make the first move again and say hey? I just im sat here wanting to message but I need to wait to see if he does... don’t i?

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  • nikkiclaire

    Nope. Message him.

    Either a relationship will work or it won't. Better to figure it out quickly, so you can use your energy towards something worthwhile.

    Speed date through life til you find the one.

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    • I keep messaging first, I just wanted to see if he was as interested as I am?

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      • nikkiclaire

        Find 7 guys. Message a differnet one each day, and then you won't have angst, and will figure out which ones are geniune. Replace the losers who never msg first.

        Repeat til you find a good man.

        You obviously have no problems messaging since you post this here every day. Do that, but with guys.

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  • lordofopinions

    Message him and bare your soul.

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  • rayb12

    No, you already are sharing nude pictures. The part where you're wondering if they're interested already happened lol

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  • Wait 7-10 days. That’s the golden rule.

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  • Nickvey

    you want his cock dont wait go for it. dont be the woman that makes him beg borrow steal or purchase it.

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    • Emokate

      If she messaged, I want your cock, he would either be at her place in seconds, or assume she was a bot 😂😂

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      • Nickvey

        right you are, and what kind of asshole thumbs down such a truthful statement that i made? I take the time to tell the absolute truth and sombody hates truth.

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