How many women would be ok with their future husband crossdressing?

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I happen to have a cross-dressing fetish which I fear is at odds for my desire for a strictly monogamous relationship with a girl. It might actually fit the legitimate definition of a fetish because about the only thing that truly arouses me fantasies involving looking effeminate and girly. My parts still work just fine so I don't think I'd have issues getting it up for normal sex but it just doesn't have the same appeal as wearing a cute dress, being held close and tight while she rails me.

I'm also not sure when the actual fuck I should bring this up in a relationship.
I still have mostly normal romantic fantasies like slow dancing and handholding at night under a starry sky; in fact I feel like I'd be ok taking the masculine role outside of sex even if I'm not very good with the spoken word. But it'd probably kill me to end up divorced after getting caught in a dress riding a dildo. So if you have any ideas as to how to bring this up in future dating that'd be nice.

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Based on 6 votes (5 yes)
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  • Cuntsiclestick
    1 year ago

    I really don't give a shit if my boyfriend wanted to wear a pretty dress as I rail him. XD

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    1 year ago

    Men in the west dont need to be feminized anymore than they already are. Men need to be much more masculine in the west. Less crying and complaining and better leaders.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago

      At the end of the day I'm still a man even if I want to wear dresses in bed. I'd still do what needs to be done to protect and help my family. I'm not entirely sure what the deluded standards of modern society have to do with my own desires and wants in life.

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      • 1WeirdGuy
        1 year ago

        We can agree that modern society is deluded. We have normalized men wearing dresses and kids taking hormones.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          1 year ago

          I really don't 'want to be a girl or take hormones. In fact i'd prefer not to wear dresses in public. Life would be simpler if i didn't have one of the least normal kinks paired with some of the most normal mindsets.

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          • 1WeirdGuy
            1 year ago

            Ok that actually makes sense and I'm sorry to put you down about it. It is what it is. I just think men are meant to be strong and its important to society. And pop culture is normalizing guys degrading their masculinity and guys intentionally being weak and girly as if its virtuous. As if being a strong man has no value to the world and actually a negative. I think we are in trouble if this goes too far. I hate seeing that shit.

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  • Goomats
    1 year ago

    I could bring it up about a month in to a relationship. That way, she knows you enough to be able to overlook it or be okay with it (if she likes your personality) but you guys are so deeply involved that it feels like an Earth-shattering confession and like your relationship has been a lie if she's against it.

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  • Curiouskitten444
    1 year ago

    I'd be fine with it but honestly anything that makes my partner happy I'd support unless it was injuring them or others.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    1 year ago

    how would i even broach the subject?

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  • kikilizzo
    1 year ago

    I find androgynity hot but going full on crossdresser, well I don't find it attractive personally. I would definitely find it weird but could possibly be accepting as long as my partner wasn't trans. I'm not pansexual after all. It would depend on the individual person how they will react though, and what their sexuality is.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    1 year ago

    As a side note no I'm not trans. I like being a boy outside of sex.

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