How often should a guy message?

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Like seriously this whole dating game is so confusing for someone who has no experience in it.
Been talking to a lad. He added me on snapchat said a few nice things and now barely anything, yeh he could be busy but I get clingy. All I wanna do is getto know him, he said the same. But I know if neither of us message and he's still on the dating site plenty more girls will pop up.

Yet again I don't want to be annoying.
Do I just say here is my number?
How many days do I leave it?

Ahh anxiety at its best.

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Based on 8 votes (6 yes)
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  • SammyDuggins
    6 years ago

    Girl, don't be nervous if you both want to get to know each other just be like hey do you want to text instead of snap and if he says yes then give him you're number.

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    • Aces
      6 years ago

      yeah just ask for it, no shame in it. as a guy on dating apps I put girls to the test to see if they will start a conversation too, I don't want it all to come from my end. (this does result in weeks on no messages)

      in my thoughts "show interest or beat it" it needs to come from both sides

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  • Tazmodian
    5 years ago

    Real life > messaging.

    Use messaging to arrange dates IRL.

    Don't be millennial.

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