How the hell do females ask other females out? ?

Just ask for her number or to go out for a coffee or a drink.

I am a lesbian and very shy so they always take the initiative, if I'm lucky.

Unfortunately dating is a universal thing! Sometimes you just have to jump in and not be afraid of rejection. have you also looked into gay clubs, gay singles bars, dating apps, community events, etc......? Good luck!

I'm a lesbian, and I've met all my past girlfriends online. Most other lesbians and bi women I've known of dating either met their girlfriends online, too, or in lesbian settings, such as lesbian bars/clubs or LGBT events at schools and such. I would never go up to a woman in a "hetero" environment and ask her out, even if I can basically tell she's into women or have heard her talk about it...especially since most "hetero" environments I'm in are work-related. I think this is the main reason why bi/les women don't get other girls hitting on them most of the time--we don't usually feel comfortable doing it unless it's a lesbian space.

I'm not a lesbian, but I'll take a crack at this as I've pursued shy guys before myself.

I would say that you should strike up a casual conversation with the person in whom you're interested to see if ya'll have anything in common, and whether or not the two of you click. If ya'll seem to hit it off then mention that you'd like to have coffee or lunch with her sometime, and ask for her number.

I would also say to brace yourself for the possibility of rejection. Don't get bitter or booty hurt if you get rejected, because rejection is just part of life. Other people have the right to reject us, and conversely we have the right to reject others who are trying to put the moves on us.

You don't make it clear whether it's other lesbians you want to ask out or women whose sexuality you're not sure of and if the latter, whether you're out as a lesbian.

If you know she's a lesbian, just ask her if she'd like to go for coffee and if that works out suggest a movie or a gay bar. Approaching someone you don't know is lesbian is more of a problem, especially if you're not out yourself.

Its easier than doing it as a man

I hope most women decide to become lesbian or bisexual, so we can have my re to choose from. When I was 24, it wasn’t as commonplace, but I’m glad to see it progressing. Most men that I know are accepting of it and some help to encourage more of us women to seek other women.

Just like you would ask out a guy. I mean if you get rejected well fuck it's whatever same as you get rejected with guys.

I have this probem too. I like this girl in my class but don't know if she's bi or lesbian...or is willing to experiment. I'm shy as well.

Many meet thru craigslist or other personal ads. Also, gay bars are very popular. Or just thru friends who are lesbian or bi. Just asking a girlfriend if she swings that way? Probably not a good idea. Lots of girls are bi. Keep your ears open. if you see an opening, go for it.

my wife worked her way into it , by first having threesums with married couples and then getting into the circle of friends that were dedicated lesbians. Call it the indirect approach if you will. it works so , what can you say about it. Better get busy because unless you can see yourself going down on a fat 47 year old granny that now looks like a man your sex life will be over.