Human pretending to be a cat - is it normal?

For 17 years I owned a beautiful cat, I even saw her being born, so she was pretty special to me. But sometimes she was very naughty and it seemed like I was in a power struggle with my cat. She would do things like try and bite an scratch which she hadn't done before. So I decided I had to display a level of dominance in a language my cat could understand.

So I began an experiment to pretend to be a big cat so that my little cat would relate to me as the dominant animal in the house.

I would do things like:
- Be on all fours and pretend to eat out of her bowl and make growling and hissing noises if she came near (tho I wasn't really eating, just pretending, but she didn't know the difference)

- Pretend to lick her fur like I was her mother ( though I wasn't really licking her fur, I was rubbing my chin with beard stubble on her fur, which to her I'm sure felt just like a big cats tongue)

- Pretend to sniff her around the face and neck – she used to get a bit freaked with this behaviour, I think she thought I was a dog

- On all fours I would pick her up from the scruff of her neck as a mother cat would do with its kittens, except I'd use my hand but pretend it was my mouth while making cat growling noises. (I don't think she noticed the difference.) She seemed to enjoy being picked up and would be completely relaxed while I did it.

I really began to notice that she seemed to be relating to me as her mother. She was often wanting to snuggle up next to me and sleep under the bed covers and purr away. Also she stopped biting and scratching me.

She's gone now ( she was run over by a car couple years back) R.I.P. little one.

Is it Normal for a grown man to pretend to be a cat?

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44% Normal
Based on 43 votes (19 yes)
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Comments ( 11 )
  • I wouldn't say your methods are normal...Unless you frequently use Tumblr. Lol.

    You don't need to act like a cat to get affection from a cat, nor to be dominant. I've never done so and my cat will usually open my bedroom door while I'm in bed and/or asleep and get under my covers and curl up by my belly. ^_^

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  • DancingMonkey

    It may not be normal, but that doesn't mean it's bad. I thought it was adorable that you did that for your cat

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    • Thanks. On some level I think she enjoyed it too.

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  • umph

    You had a very good idea which worked.
    So IIN.
    And you are smart. Congrats!

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  • RoseIsabella

    Nope, nobody does it better than my Siamese Dream.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I can certainly sympathize with your fascination with creatures of the feline persuasion, however cats tend to make better cats than people do.

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    • Yes that's true. Though I really enjoyed pretending to be a cat. It was fun and felt very animalistic to communicate with her via growls, meows, sniffing and grooming. I felt that we got to know each other better too. Meow.

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      • RoseIsabella

        LOL

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        • I think you're going to start the same thing with your cat

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  • KeddersPrincess

    Otherkin?

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  • dinz

    Relating to someone be it a pet or human is totally normal.

    Yeah it is in my opinion in your case a little weird but if it involved you acting like a dominant cat to stop your pet to misbehave I don't see the issue.

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