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I’m a sex positive incel. I play with myself every day and like to masturbate in unusual locations. I have no regrets that women hate me.
Am I normal?
You’re making the best of a bad situation. Keep up the positive outlook.
Why not make something of your life instead of pulling the pod 24/7. You're miserable
I think a big part of your mistake is thinking women hate you, when lack of attraction and hate is not the same thing. You could be held back by appearence as well, but youre making it worse by attitude. A hostile attitude from start will certainly get you nowhere.
I cant guarantee you would find someone otherwise either, but the chance increase if you can interact in a way where you aren't resentful, and you can actually see them as a person and care about them genuinely (not in a way that depends on your chance of getting laid). As well as getting other passions in life may help you bond when you find someone with the same passions. You would also seem less desperate, and being really passionate about something (like a hobby, or maybe career or a cause) is an attractive trait in itself. And having other things going on in your life makes life less fulfilling even if you dont find someone.
Yes, women do not automatically hate me. But, you have a gross misunderstanding of my situation. You do not realize the instant projection that occurs when a man makes eye contact with a woman. If Brad Pitt, or an equally attractive movie star makes eye contact with you, your entire subconscious reacts. If a scarred unattractive guy makes eye contact, a similarly negative reaction occurs instantly. Surprisingly, lesbians are wired a bit differently.
I have tested this hypothesis by wearing a scarf, and believe me, the results are consistent 100% of the time.
Here is a thought experiment for you. Imagine that one of the guys in this picture looked at you and smiled. Don't go into denial. You would only be able to tolerate very avoidant body language on his part.
*uploading the picture*
This statement proves your ignorance.
A lot of guys that are ugly get married to women that are just as ugly as them. Also, when are people going to get over this naive belief that what matters more to people is the personality? If not all, the majority of people care about the looks. If some fat ass 600 pound person were to come along and ask the majority of people to date them, you wanna know what the answer would be? A hard no. So quit lying.
I’m not upset. Women can’t be expected to fuck a guy with terrible scars. It isn’t their fault I am deformed.
Don’t even think for a minute that a girl would marry me. That’s an extremely ignorant expectation.
I masturbated in the empty stair well of a skyscraper a couple of months ago. It was gnarly. I try to do myself in an unusual location 4 times a year. In this way, I am a man for all seasons.
You're telling me this as if I care. Look dude, it's not some big accomplishment, neither does it make you special. Once again, good for you.
I’m recommending the experience. Maybe you’d rather fuck a hooker in a stairwell. I don’t fucking care. I already know nobody is your friend by reading your other comments.
But don’t despair. If you bang a nasty hooker in a stairwell, please share the dirty details. Outside ideas are what keeps this website running.
Why not try to change to where women dont hate you? If all women hate you its probably not their fault its that you really suck. Dont be that guy who jerks off on omeagle. Look at yourself in the mirror. Thats not you. You arent gonna be a dirty ol man peepin tommy.
Depends, there is a difference between hated and just not attracted to. If he's actually HATED by a majority of women, then he almost certainly does something wrong or had bad attitudes, and should change (but I think a lot of incels say hate, when they mean just lack of attraction, and that's wrong, not the same thing). If its just lack of attraction, maybe OP doesn't have what it takes or haven't found a solution that could work for them, or maybe (and hopefully) just hasn't met the right woman yet, but could in the future.
I am hated because I am a scar face. At least two thirds of all women glare at me like I am a piece of meat. Nothing can be done except to ignore the terrible feelings that they project into me.