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i get real turned on by women in their 70s and 80s and even nineties.i have slept with some of them and i love it-is it normal?
Not exactly normal, but if they're still alive and capable of consent, the retirement home is your oyster.
I was impressed with your answer about them being able to consent good for you, The oldest lady i have made love to was 85 and a customer of mine. (I was 47) She was a lady of the old school, prim and proper and well enough off to maintain her dress code etc, her name was ANN. But when fixing her Tv one time she looked so sad I said whats the matter today and she said i need a hug as my friend has died ..i said well thats easy and it would be my pleasure.
i did and she shyly kissed me and it did take me by surprise but it was nice so i did it back and we smooched for few minutes then she started to cry and said i am so sorry i did that. I said you don't have to be sorry that was the most loving kiss and hug i have had for years and i thank you.
I phoned her a week later to see if she was ok and she asked me to come over as she had big favour to ask, so the next day i went over and had tea and cake. She said would you hug and kiss me again as i am so lonely and at 85 i know i am going to die soon. It's only normal, i know that, but after you left i felt so good for days thinking of what we did.
Then she said sit down and we did and we smooched again then I said ok whats the favour you wanted before you get me all excited and i forget, she laughed and said this is it, you being here and us kissing, but yes now the hard part is, i want to ask you something but now you are here i cant seem to get it out. I took her by the hands and kissed her on the lips and said ask me anything you want and if i can i will, She said if i ask you and you say no will it still stay our secret and i said of course it will.
Then she said i want to ask you if you could make love to me but i am not sure if i can really do it as i am so old and wrinkly. I was shocked yet not shocked as i had thought of it as well but would never have suggested such a thing. I said it would be an honour to see you naked and kiss you all over and lay beside you in bed, however will you forgive me if it does not work for some reason or other and we just had to kiss and me play with you, She said just trying will be enough lets see what happens and accept it as it does.
But there is a catch and that is i want to have rest of the day to bath and do my face and then you come back. I was so excited at that moment i would of agreed to anything. Yes we made love i kissed her pussy much to her horror at first, she tasted sweet and when i looked up into it i could not tell she was 85 except for the grey hair in some places. I had an affair with Ann for a year and she died. I will always respect and honour her and have made love respectfully to older ladies since then.
You'll likely get ridiculed; but if you can take it, and you want to give some of 'that', and they want to take some of yours, well go ahead and give it to em.
Thats really good because im pretty sure a lot of old ladies get vulnerable & lonely and want excitement back in there lives.
To each his own. Old people have old people smell tho, that's a fact too.
I'm with you, ghoti56, I still jack-off to photos of my mother-in-law. In fact I've spent a lot of time "photoshopping" her face on to nude and semi-nude pics I've taken of her daughter, my wife! Looking at some of them and I need hardly touch myself before I cum.
Strangely, though she was no beauty (sadly she died a few years ago), I was turned on just by the sight of her. Her daughter, my wife, had quite similar facial features which seemed to increase as she aged. Sadly, she too is now dead. Ah well, I still have their photographs and despite the obvious disgust of guys like DustinZ35 and Lynxicat, I still cum over them.
Its normal for mature people to be together. After some age age difference wont matter.
At age 60 I made love to a lovely woman aged 87. She had been widowed for 30 years and her children wouldn't allow her to have a life outside of her home and church. She was so starved for adult love it was palpable. After having made love to her twice her sons discovered her "indiscretion" and moved her into a nursing home. She was like a beautiful child who had never been allowed to grown into maturity. This did not end well, although I will never forget this beautiful, loving woman, and the small gift I was able to give to her; not sex, but the touch and tenderness of another human being of which her children had deprived her of for so many years. Grown children often believe that they are acting in their elderly parent/s best interest. Perhaps they were;but I know in my heart I accomplished something of great value to this woman that I believe is what she needed to move onto to whatever lay beyond this life. I often think of of her and how she taught me as much as I had her taught her. To those childish enough to think that elderly women somehow change to become less feminine or less womanly, is a myth. Unfortunately, in our culture, most men will never have the opportunity to discover this truth.
Probably not "normal", but I am about your age, and share your weird sexual preference.
As my wife has gotten into her late 50's I have found that I am now WAY more attracted to her than I was earlier in our lives. But as much as I appreciate her *somewhat* older self, I still feel like it will take another few decades for her to reach the peak of perfection that I found her mother to be at about age 75 or so. When I have sex with my wife, I often find myself imagining her sexy body being 10, 20, 30 years older. I frequently J/O to pictures of my mother in law from when she was in her 60's and 70's (sadly, she didn't make it to her 80's). If I look at porn, it's always at women 60+.
So, normal? maybe not. But who cares! The hottest, sexiest creatures that I know of are women over 60, and I feel lucky to be in the small club of gentlemen who understand that.
Uh... on the plus side, it's probably better than being 57 and "getting hot" for teenage girls.
I think there's a word for it, if someone's sexually attracted to elders... it's a type of paraphilia, but I can't remember what it's called...
I had sex with my grandmother's friend when I wad 17. Still some of the best sex I ever had, I think she was 73