I am a gay guy and a liar

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25, gay male. I live in a country where LGBT is a taboo. All of my married straight friends can't stop prying about me who still isn't married yet. Back then, I've been pretending about being straight and lying to them by saying I haven't found the right girl or I don't feel like marrying yet. All of this pretending business hurts me so damn much especially when they always ask me about my sexual relationship.

In order to save myself from the alienation of society and to stop them from asking about my life further, I lied to them by confessing about being asexual and how I want to be single forever from now on. They're shocked at first but they eventually believed me.

I hate myself for not being able to love an opposing gender so lying to everybody is the only way I can be accepted in the society I live in.

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  • Tinybird
    1 year ago

    Just move to a Western country everyone will wanna suck your dick and tell you how amazing and proud you should be.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago

      Sorry. It's not that easy in my situation.

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  • Orphan
    1 year ago

    Just find people that have same sex attractions like u do. You'll get a sense of community and feel less alone.

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  • RoseIsabella
    1 year ago

    Honestly, I wouldn't mind being asexual. Solitude is infinitely better than being with the wrong person.

    Enough about me, where are you? Maybe someday you can move from your country to another place that is better?

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  • Clunk42
    1 year ago

    Just say that you don't want to marry. Problem solved. It's not like you'd be lying then or anything.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago

      Already told them that. It's just that if they decided to further pestering me on why I don't want to get married, I just lie to them about being asexual.

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      • Clunk42
        1 year ago

        Why in the world would you need to lie about being asexual? Some people just don't want to marry. That explanation alone should be enough. It's better not to be married.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    1 year ago

    If they are truly your friends they wont care if you're gay. As long as you arent being super flamboyant about it

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago

      I don't want to risk getting alienated by them by telling the truth.

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