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Usually I will forget to take the pill but I love having sex. I never wanna get pregnant tho so should I just take the next day one and forget the pill all the same? My husband is against birth control btw.
Would that be normal.
So your husband is against birth control!!!! WTF is this shit? Why did you marry a complete fucking moron?
There are reasons for people to be against birth control, but if you're going to be taking birth control, you really shouldn't be married to a person who's against it.
I don't care if there are reasons. Anyone against contraception is extremely fucking stupid. No ifs, ands, buts or exceptions!
I cant take birthcontrol because I am too underweight and my doc said it would rek my period system from properly flushing out... that being said, anyone who doesnt believe in proper contraception is stupid
Haha well that's very unfortunate. However very different than what I'm saying. Like I have a coworker who is allergic to latex. He isn't against contraception its just one form doesn't work for him.
This man, is against the idea of trying to prevent having a kid during sex. By any means. That's where the "extremely fucking stupid" part comes in. Comprendo or no comprendo?
There are so many options for birth control that don't involve you having to remember to take anything. Why not use one of those?
You need to take a deep hard look at yourself. How would you feel if your husband poked holes in the condom and you got pregnant.
What makes you think it is okay to disregard your husband's wishes.
Also, IUDs last 10 years. Get one.
Casual use of the contraceptive pill is fine if you wouldn't mind going through all the hassles and discomforts pregnancy and birth, if you like the idea of your life being turned upside down by the arrival of a child, if you'd have no financial problems providing a good life for a child, if you like the idea of being responsible for the care of another human being for at least the next eighteen years and you get a kick out of the idea that your heart will be held hostage by a person who will almost certainly turn into an asshole about thirteen years down the line and may turn out to be a total asshole forever.
Since it seems that you're not actually that stupid, then you need to set up a system that ensures you take your pill at the same time every day. Unless you have the memory of the proverbial goldfish, it's not that difficult. Make it a habit to take it before or after something you do every morning or evening without fail. Brushing your teeth for example, or putting on your underwear, or whatever.
As for what you should do if you miss a pill, advice about this should be on the information leaflet that's included with all medication.
Thanks for your answer btw. So do you have the normal pill each day when you brush your teeth or do you just remember. I can never remember.
But like I can skip taking the pill every day and just rely on the next day pill which you only take when you need too and basically it guarantees you wont be pregnant. It seems better than relying on memory every day. Like sometimes I forget and then I will worry.
The eveyother day pill is not that effective. I've heard it stops 5/6 of would be pregnancies.
That isn't made for extended use. Just set an alarm, it's not complicated.
Also, stop lying to your husband and claiming everyone is saying you're a bad person for not wanting kids when they're saying it because you made a major lie.