I am scared to have sex because of breast lump

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I have lump on my breast. I've had it checked and it's not dangerous and my doctor says it's too small it would be pointless to remove it with surgery, that we should wait until it gets bigger or something, but he doesn't recommend surgery now.

Anyway, so, this guy's been flirting with me and we have been on one date but I'm so scared that we will go and have sex and he will feel the lump and freak out. and then i will explain it's alright but still, it will be such a turn off.

And I don't think we are close enough to tell him about it beforehand. I don't even know what he wants, maybe just a night (not sure if that's everything i want or i want more).

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  • Pussy_Destroyer_69
    5 years ago

    You are giving us man way too much credit. Titties are just titties so unless they are deformed or something like that we don't give a shit, specially if we are fucking while touching them.

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  • Mark92
    5 years ago

    If doctor says its fine, I see no problem with it. A real doctor's advice is better than any you would get from this website...

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  • Boojum
    5 years ago

    If your doctor says the lump is so small it doesn't merit surgery, I suspect it's very likely the guy won't even notice it.

    I've been in relationships with women who found lumps in their breasts, and I was damned if I could feel them. What you feel when you examine yourself is very different to what someone else feels.

    You're used to your body. He isn't. You know every little flaw and imperfection, but it will all be new to him. If he should maul your breasts to such a degree that he does notice and says something, then thank him for mentioning it to you (because guys should do that - in a tactful way - just in case the woman hasn't noticed), say you know about it, it's been checked out, and it's nothing to worry about.

    Oh, and do you seriously believe that, if you and the guy are naked and obviously heading for sex when he notices the lump, he's going to be so frigging freaked out by this imperfection that he's going to leap out of bed, get dressed and leave? If you do think that's a possibility, then I think you either have very little experience of men, or you've been with some quite strange ones.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      I know, the doctor said it is small and when i went to get a scan the doctors there were oh thats a little one, but i can feel it it feels so big to me... but i guess you are right. thanks for your kind words x

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Get a new doctor.

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