I am so hurt right now

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I just found out my boyfriend is cheating on me with some other woman. After everything we've been through, he has got some fucking nerve. Yesterday, he was in the shower for 40 minutes when he usually takes 15 minutes, which leads me to believe he's trying to get extra clean for another girl. And today, I was snooping through his phone, and what do I see? A contact that said "mother". This makes me suspicious because he BARELY talks to his mother, so why would she be in his contacts? Therefore, I think this is really is the girl he has been cheating on me with. And guess what else? He made NOODLES, which he has never made before . I think m he makes the other bitch noodles, which explains the reason he made something he has never made before. I am so pissed right now. How could he do this to me?

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OSCARUK

2 years ago | pl

So you've not actually caught him doing anything except keeping himself clean, calling his mother and enjoying some noodles?

The post stinks of 'psycho'

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- hauntedbysandwiches
  
  2 years ago | pl
  
  I'm thinking troll
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    2 years ago
    
    That's what I've suspected all along.
    
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  2 years ago
  
  I've already EXPLAINED why this means he's cheating. He didn't make noodles until now, barely talks to his mother, and usually showers for 15 minutes. I am RIGHT. You can call me a psycho all you want bitch, but at the end of the day, he's doing some whore behind my back and I know it.
  
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  - OSCARUK
    
    2 years ago
    
    You've explained why you think he is cheating but my point remains.. You haven't actually caught him doing anything at all.
    
    If you re-read my post, i didn't directly call you a psycho.
    But if you genuinely believe he is screwing around, why dont you just tell him to leave and find yourself someone else to stress over
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      2 years ago
      
      Why would I leave some asshole just to get with another asshole who screws around? I would rather not stress at all.
      
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      - OSCARUK
        
        2 years ago
        
        Then just leave them and don't fill your bed with another, it's pretty simple
        
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      - RoseIsabella
        
        2 years ago
        
        My stress is much less, because I'm single. I enjoy being single.
        
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    2 years ago
    
    If he's doing some whore behind your back then there's only one thing left for you to do.
    
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  - BlueAlice
    
    2 years ago
    
    OK Borderliner.
    
    Now you need to explain to us why you made a deliberate choice to have BPD.
    
    You're old enough to write on this forum, you're old enoighh to know better than to have a personality disorder.
    
    You are being naughty and childish
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      2 years ago
      
      😂😂😂😂
      
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olderdude-xx

2 years ago

So, try calling his mother's number and see who answers... and be ready to talk to his mother if she answers.

Even if people rarely talk, they will have family and relatives in their contact list.

I have brothers and sisters that I might talk to about every other year, if that. Then I have ones that I talk to frequently (I have 7 brothers and sisters).

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  2 years ago
  
  Sure, buddy. He almost NEVERS talks to his mom. And he obviously knows i've been snooping because I confronted about this bitch "Mom". So now he has phone on him at ALL costs, and when he doesn't, he hides it.
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    2 years ago
    
    So then why even be with someone you don't trust, and who doesn't trust you?
    
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hauntedbysandwiches

2 years ago

Nice try. You really had me until noodles.

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- RoseIsabella
  
  2 years ago
  
  The noodles bit is kinda funny.
  
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  - Anonymous Post Author
    
    2 years ago
    
    Oh, so you think him cheating on me is funny? Asshole.
    
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    - RoseIsabella
      
      2 years ago
      
      It's only funny if you stay with his two-timing ass.
      
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  2 years ago
  
  I don't know what you are talking about? I would appreciate it if you would elaborate what you mean.
  
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  - hauntedbysandwiches
    
    2 years ago
    
    The whole post makes no sense
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      2 years ago
      
      That doesn't make it a troll post like you're claiming, you bitch.
      
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BleedingPain

2 years ago

This smells of pathological fishyness, but if it is true, you just came here to vent. No discussion there.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  2 years ago
  
  "Pathological fishyness". What do you mean by that?
  
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  - BleedingPain
    
    2 years ago
    
    Its a combo of pathological liar and fishy. I think you probably lie too much and your post smells fishy
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      2 years ago
      
      Lie too much? No. I am very honest. And YOU smell fishy. I can smell you right through the phone.
      
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RoseIsabella

2 years ago

I smell troll. 😑

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- bbrown95
  
  2 years ago
  
  I'm pretty sure this person has been creating a lot of troll posts here for at least a couple of months now. Same general writing style and use of insults/defensiveness, all of the posts and replies to comments are equally ridiculous and attention seeking, etc.
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    2 years ago
    
    Um hmm...
    
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  - Anonymous Post Author
    
    2 years ago
    
    I think you're confusing me with someone else. I'm insulting them because I don't appreciate being called a troll. Try to understand that and i'm not trying to get "attention". I'm sorry you feel that way.
    
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    - RoseIsabella
      
      2 years ago
      
      Okay, so if you're man is cheating on you then why are still with him?
      
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        2 years ago
        
        I don't know.
        
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        RoseIsabella
        
        2 years ago
        
        Well, you could confront him, and just ask him. Take his phone, and call the number like you are trying to call his Mama to see how she's doing. Ask to speak to his mama by her first name, and if some chick says you have a wrong number then there, you have your answer. Just do it!
        
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  2 years ago
  
  Jesus, why does everyone keep saying that? I come here, say my boyfriend is cheating on me, and then I get called a troll? Wtf?
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    2 years ago
    
    Well, if you're not a troll then just leave him. Cheaters are gross, and if someone cheats on me I just leave them.
    
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  - olderdude-xx
    
    2 years ago
    
    Because you presented no actual evidence that he was cheating.
    
    It appears to many of us that you are jumping to conclusions... without any actual evidence.
    
    Yes, cheating is a problem. But you may well have destroyed any future relationship by jumping to conclusions with no actual evidence; and not just with him... but anyone he tells the story too if he is innocent.
    
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      2 years ago
      
      There is evidence.
      
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LloydAsher

2 years ago

Not cool to go snooping on his phone. The phone is just a more accessible portion of our personal space. Definitely not cool to shuffle through it.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  2 years ago
  
  And it's not cool for my boyfriend to be cheating on me! After everything i've done for him, he's got some fucking nerve messing around with other bitches.
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    2 years ago
    
    What have you done for him?
    
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      2 years ago
      
      Everything.
      
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      - RoseIsabella
        
        2 years ago
        
        So then stop, and just dump his cheating ass! I wouldn't ever stay with a cheater.
        
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farkelu

2 years ago

NO ONE normally stays in the shower for 40 minutes. He's probably playing with his noodle in there!

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  2 years ago
  
  Or he's trying to get extra clean for someone else.
  
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Somenormie

2 years ago

If this is true then you would've dumped him ages ago.

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  2 years ago
  
  I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt.
  
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shoka2322

2 years ago

He needs to be forced to pay for this.

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kikilizzo

2 years ago

So based on him having his mom saved as a contact and taking longer showers you'd believe this? Damn.
I guess I have to delete my dad whom I rarely talk to from my phone so it doesn't look suspicious that I have his number, and I better never take longer showers, and god FORBID I cook NOODLES!... The very fancy, romantic meal noodles... That's truly the tip of the ice berg.
I just could never stand the thought of my man making the extreme effort of cooking NOODLES for another woman... I mean, she would be SOLD immadiately! That's some real grand effort right there! It simply doesn't get much better!... If only I had a man to cook me noodles... Sigh

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  2 years ago
  
  It ISN'T his mother. He only talks to her once or twice a year. And taking 40 minutes in the shower? That's WEIRD. He has never taking longer than 20 minutes. And i've already explained, he does NOT cook noodles, but all of a sudden he wants to be brand new.
  
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hidden.hands

2 years ago

Beat his ass jk sorry to hear that

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kelili

2 years ago

You have strong suspicions but in no way have you discovered anything. But usually when you're in a relationship and suspect something is fishy it usually means that something is fishy.
Just observe because he will automatically change his behaviour if he suspects that you might know something or just confront him.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  2 years ago
  
  I have discovered something..That he's CHEATING.
  
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Curiouskitten444

2 years ago

Sorry to hear you're going through this. I would say not normal.

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Are You Normal?

I am so hurt right now