I am use to being with someone that is very affectionate.

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I am use to being with someone who is very affectionate. Willing to hug, hold hands, cuddle, be touchy feely. Now I am with someone who is not so much that way. It is very different to me. I’m scared I’m going to push him away because that is all I’ve known. We have sex, we make out etc- but he’s just not use to all the other stuff all the time. I suffer from chronic migraines and sometimes I just want him to hold me, and he does it sometimes but as he says this isn’t something I normally do. Any thoughts? Suggestions?

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  • Chudders
    10 months ago

    It's "used", not "use".

    Why does every fucking retard who asks their stupid fucking questions about relationships always have piss poor communication skills? Talk to him you absolute fool. Tell him how you feel, tell him what you're looking for and ask him how he feels.

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    • Wow3986
      10 months ago

      So you rape the mentally disabled?

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  • notmyrealname123
    10 months ago

    eww, your used.... twice!

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    10 months ago

    I think its genetic and a bit of upbringing has to do with it. My dad was never that loving affectionate type and I got it from him. I also noticed from this stray cat who I raised two litters of its kittens before I had it spayed. The ones I pet a lot were way more affectionate and wanted to be pet and were needy. The ones I did not pet didnt like to be touched very much. This is my own anecdotal proof of upbringing causing this.

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  • litelander8
    10 months ago

    I don’t think either of you are wrong. But I don’t see it working long term.

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    • Chudders
      10 months ago

      "I don't think". Should've left it at that, the rest was unneeded.

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      • litelander8
        10 months ago

        Don’t ever leave me like that again baby!

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        • ObamaIfHeWasBlack
          10 months ago

          Psst....I think you've got a stalker

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          • litelander8
            10 months ago

            I’ve been told I give out “sexy vibes” on line. Anonymously. Lol.

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