I came out for nothing iin?

53% Normal

Cant find a date and all women keep ghosting me or taking days to reply.
Why cant I find consistentcy?
Does love even exist ?
Seems like I went through all that stress, effort and time to go to LGBT events all for nothing!! I see some people in a relationship, hell my lesbian mate is even married to her wifey and gonna have a baby.
Here I am not one date, kiss with a women or relationship. I cant gain my sexual experience if I cant find someone who's serious about making committed efforts!
What's going on?
Whys my sister find a relationship for 3 years they text daily even when the person shes dating is studying so no excuses for people who claim to be "busy!!".
The only reason he makes effort with her is cause she acts like a slave and is a people pleaser to the extent of being a walk over. Anything he wants shell do like a little slave.

Voting Results

53% Normal

Based on 15 votes (8 yes)

Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!

[ Report Post ]

Comments ( 23 )

ellnell

3 years ago | pl

Well the reason is pretty obvious. You are too desperate.
Desperation is hard to conceal even if you try.
Chill ffs. Get a hobby.
People who get a partner naturally aren't desperate or bitter. That's why it works.

Comment Hidden ( show )

7

7
- megadriver
  
  3 years ago
  
  Desperate is putting it lightly... Op posts either this, or how much she hates her straight sister who has a job and a proper relationship once a month. And naturally "heteronormative" society, or let me put it bluntly... MEN are to blame.
  
  Ah yes, men... we should all just go and burn in a fire. But I don't think being on fire is nice, so I won't do that.
  
  Personally, I think the problem is op.
  
  Comment Hidden ( show )
  
  5
  
  5
  - [Old Memory]
    
    3 years ago
    
    The first step is always admitting it
    
    Comment Hidden ( show )
    
    4
    
    4
    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      3 years ago
      
      The first step is retarded fucks not commenting on my posts presumptious twats
      
      Comment Hidden ( show )
      
      -1
      
      -1
      - [Old Memory]
        
        3 years ago
        
        Do you really think you're fooling anyone, do you really think that poorly of us?
        
        Comment Hidden ( show )
        
        3
        
        3
        
        -
        
        Anonymous Post Author
        
        3 years ago
        
        The only fool here is you my friend
        
        Comment Hidden ( show )
        
        0
        
        0
  - Anonymous Post Author
    
    3 years ago
    
    Personally your opinion is prerogative.
    Facts are men are dick thinkers and what my sister is doing is trying to fit into hetronormative society for 3 years. I have cut her out and so has her ex best friend of 6 years!
    Given he also has cut her out and is a sane genuine guy, says a lot about her 😏
    
    Comment Hidden ( show )
    
    -1
    
    -1
    - a-curious-bunny
      
      3 years ago
      
      Generally speaking people tend to cut their exes out of their lives. Pretty normal. Also heteronormative as you put it is well the societal norm. You reek of anger and desperation. Wich is why you are single. Being a modern day feminist certainly isn't helping either.
      
      Comment Hidden ( show )
      
      2
      
      2
    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      3 years ago
      
      Not a proper relationship nece a month, you got facts wrong too lmao.
      
      Comment Hidden ( show )
      
      0
      
      0
Boojum

3 years ago

Oh. You're back again. 🙄 And with the same-old, same-old.

Here's a general rule of thumb that I've picked up over the more than six decades I've been hanging around: If someone constantly complains about everyone they meet being an asshole, then it's certain that the whiner is a huge asshole.

I know you won't pay any heed to any advice offered here, because it's clear you're one of those people who always blames others for all the problems in their life.

Nonetheless, some advice: Focus your energies on becoming someone who has reasonable grounds to feel proud of the person they are and the positive role they play in the lives of others. Find something that will give you joy and doesn't require the validation of others. Accept the fact that you're never going to find Ms Perfect, accept that you're never going to lose your virginity, and learn how to be content with that. Once this ceases to become such a huge, dramatic deal for you, then you may find that something pleasant comes out of the blue. If that never happens, you'll still be content with your life.

Comment Hidden ( show )

5

5
litelander8

3 years ago

🙄

Comment Hidden ( show )

5

5
[Old Memory]

3 years ago

You should look at the women in your life who are in relationships and see what it is about them and their partners that make their relationships work

Being envious and bitter of what other people have isn't going to poof a partner into existence

Working on yourself and living your best life would be a step in the right direction

But until then you are Tartarus incarnate

Comment Hidden ( show )

4

4
nopurpose

3 years ago

What fuckin morons would dare to date strangers during pandemics?!

'my lesbian mate is even married to her wifey and gonna have a baby'

How the fuck? Is one of them' transgender' or what?'

Know what you shall do, sissy? Go to some mosque, bare your butt and get on all fours with your backside against the gate. To attract real men

Comment Hidden ( show )

2

2
- a-curious-bunny
  
  3 years ago
  
  Lawls. I dont think that person would ever be seen again.
  
  Comment Hidden ( show )
  
  1
  
  1
CapriSun

3 years ago

Dude, coming out does not = massive amounts of poon/relationships. You can be hot and single and still remain so for a long time because dating/mingling is just hard.... no matter how gay you are.

Comment Hidden ( show )

2

2
Somenormie

3 years ago

Trying too hard and wanting people in a way that is very desperate to be with you isn't normal.

Comment Hidden ( show )

2

2
kelili

3 years ago

Maybe you're trying too hard. You cannot force people into 'serious' relationship. It just happens. Two people go out, it feels good, they go out more and before they realise it their relationship has become serious.
Just relax. It never comes when you're trying too hard.

Comment Hidden ( show )

2

2
- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Why do people write that their looking for relationship on dating apps then?
  Then dont even make effort or if they do, they ghost quite quickly.
  Happened to my otter mates to
  
  Comment Hidden ( show )
  
  0
  
  0
  - kelili
    
    3 years ago
    
    They write this because it attracts more than 'looking for one-night stands' probably. Society has made sexuality taboo. So much pain and heartbreak would be avoided if we were honest about sexuality. There is no wrong in just wanting sex but saying is somehow wrong. Fucking norms.
    
    Comment Hidden ( show )
    
    0
    
    0
  - [Old Memory]
    
    3 years ago
    
    They want a relationship with somebody, just not a relationship with anybody
    
    Comment Hidden ( show )
    
    0
    
    0
    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      3 years ago
      
      Then why they swipe right on me lmao
      
      Comment Hidden ( show )
      
      0
      
      0
mamabun

3 years ago

Get used to it with lesbian dating especially in more conservative areas. That "useless lesbian" trope, 100% true. Especially if you're a top.

Just keep trying and keep your hopes up.

Comment Hidden ( show )

1

1
- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Trope?
  
  Comment Hidden ( show )
  
  0
  
  0

Are You Normal?

I came out for nothing iin?