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I really really can’t let my boyfriend go all the way... I recently had a smear done and it hurt like fuck! If having sex is that painful I do not want it.
The first time might hurt but once the hymen is broken and healed you will enjoy it. Just lay back, close your eyes and do it for America.
hi baby penetration usually hurts at first, but if you are aroused it should go smoothly. start small, try fingers first then work your way up once you're comfortable. once again the biggest factor is how aroused you are, since the vagina naturally lubricates itself.
Talk about this with your boyfriend. Let him know you're worried it will hurt. If he loves you, he will go slow and listen to you.
Arousal and anxiety are big factors - with opposite effects on how things go.
Sex should not hurt, even the first time. "Tearing the hymen" and "virginity" are outdated and disgusting concepts created to control property. You are not property.