I can never gather the confidence to show any of my art to anyone?

I take art classes in and out of school and like to practice drawing a lot. Though I doubt I can make any kind of career of it it is one of my favourite hobbies; however, I can never gather enough confidence to show anyone any if my work.

I draw usually from imagination, and use art as an outlet for my emotions. However, I am always afraid that people will think there us something "wrong" with me because of my art. My family, who because I am interested in gothic and alternative fashion joke that my sketchbook must be "filled with skeletons" are not exactly helping either. I have the same thing with poetry or stories if I ever write them.

I am very open about other things, such as my religion and sexual orientation, dress in a lot of clothes that could be easily considered "weird", and have a rather uncommon name, all of which I am perfectly fine with. However, I get so paranoid that someone will think badly of my drawings that I sometimes think to stop making them altogether.

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  • disthing

    "I draw usually from imagination"

    Ah... It's always refreshing to read that.

    When I studied art I found it really strange how many students would rely on copying (whether from life or other art) to create images.

    Yes, it's normal to be self conscious about your artwork. I used to be very embarrassed - somehow it was made worse by the fact that people kept pointing out how good at art I was. I had no idea how to take a compliment, and the praise didn't actually make me feel good, just anxious.

    There's nothing wrong with keeping your art to yourself. If it's a private hobby, then don't worry about it. You're drawing FOR YOU, not anyone else.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

    so do some landscapes and some inoffensive kinda stuff that yall can show round. itll be a challenge to git yall outta yalls usual comfort zone and if yall gots any talent itll come out good. keep the weird shit to yallself.

    if yalls an artist peoples gonna expect yall to be weird anyways. yall might get some satisfaction throwin peoples off by a lookin all weird but a paintin something that theyall think beautiful. it might even git yall noticed better

    if yall git established the weird stuff can come out later

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    • Shelbs

      Oh how I missed you...

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      • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

        try holdin yalls breath and gently squeezin the trigger

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  • KeepsakeDoll

    Have you considered making an account on deviant art? Or some website that allows one to show their creations anonymously? It's one step towards boosting your confidence.

    Although, be aware that your artwork may appear in other places on the internet. So, choose carefully on what you feel okay with sharing and create a certain signature if you want credit.

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    • I have made a deviantart account, added one picture but never used it since; none of my art is digital and I don't have a decent camera or scanner.

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      • disthing

        Deviantart is crap anyway, you're not missing anything.

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  • Holzman_67

    how old are you may I ask?
    I was self conscious about my art when I was younger because in my teenage years it was a very judgemental and stereotypical environment. With maturity and the company of maturity it becomes a lot easier to exhibit and for the artworks to be embraced properly and interpreted subjectively.

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    • I see what you mean; I'm in my late teens.

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  • Shelbs

    It's normal to be self-conscious. The thing is, is that art is so subjective, but there is a standard for professional work. I understand this because I also do art. You say you aren't professional so you don't have to worry about that. I get the feeling, however, that you are comparing yourself to professional artists, and noticing a difference in skill. You shouldn't be because even those who do art for a living, look at their own work and don't like all of it.

    There's a theory that as an artist paints they improve and so by the time they're done with a painting, they've improved past the point of what they just completed. That's why artists are never happy with their finished product, because they're beyond the point of when they started.

    Don't stop making art. Show your work to others, maybe a close friend to get some feedback. Most people who don't do art aren't critical and will be impressed because it's better than what they could do.

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    • I understand your suggestion, but I can say for sure it has little to do with skill. I have taken painting classes alongside those making art a career at the age of thirteen and have a 98% average for art courses in school. It is my subject matter that I am worried about.

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      • Shelbs

        There will always be people who don't like your work. Even if all you drew were lilies, there will be those who don't like lilies. There are Monet haters out there. As an artist, criticism is something you'll have to get used to.

        What do you draw that's so controversial? If it's skulls or Gothic themed, then don't worry, it's not that weird. Your parents just sound conservative.

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        • They are quite conservative; in fact, they joke that it must be skulls or some such even when they haven't seen it. Usually, if anything, it's inspired by fantasy, sci-fi or some books that I read and has little to nothing to do with gothic themes. Sometimes it's surreal or sometimes things that I just thought might look interesting. Lately, I've tried to imagine how some of the scenes and characters from Neil Gaiman's American Gods would look like, but I'm hesitant to let anyone see my interpretation because no matter how I try to downplay it the book does contain some violence.

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          • Shelbs

            I see. Still, Not all of your work will be appreciated or understood. Pieces that contain violent themes may not go over well with the conservative crowd. Just like anime wouldn't be fully appreciated by those who think it's weird.

            With anything, if you are worried about something not being accepted, then you may have to pick the crowd you choose to show certain works to.

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