I can't figure out if i am gay?

The question of "am I gay" has always been on my mind and because of that it causes me so much stress. When I am speaking to guys I focus on and can't tell if it's cuz I want to be their friend or their boyfriend.
Yesterday there was a moment when a guy was flirting with me and I Felt very nervous, while talking my thoughts Were completely lost And I questioned myself greatly asking myself "What if I liked it". At the same time as this thought I was also thinking that I needed to get out of there, and was a little scared the man was going to follow me. After the moment I still didn't know if Onwas gay and felt gross, sad and out of place thinking of the possibility of being gay.After this incident I began to think that the only way to get rip of this homosexuality fear was to try having gay experiences.Although I do not want to do so very much, I feel it will help alleviate my stress and would help me figure myself out.

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Comments ( 10 )
  • noid

    You don't sound gay, just paranoid/anxiety.

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  • Max2016

    Do you get turned on by looking at a naked man? Have you ever gotten horny thinking about such thing? Have you ever felt like kissing a man? Have you ever had the urge to suck a man's dick? etc. etc.

    If the answer is no to all these questions, then no your're not gay.

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  • Potatoskins

    How do you feel about women?

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  • Rusty-Rider

    I think you're gay.
    If I felt the way you do, I know I'd be gay.
    It's up to you to find out for sure.

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  • yesnomaybeso

    I would say just don't worry, and you'll end up knowing. Just don't put any label! :)

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  • FORUMidableFucker

    You just sound confused. Stop beating off for like five days and then you will know. You just oversexualize things and it makes you nervous as it should because regardless it will lead to poor relationships if handle wrong.

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  • AbnormallyAwesome

    You can't tell if you want to be their friend or their boyfriend? They don't exclude each other. There's no danger in becoming friends.
    But if you already have a gay friend, maybe talk to him about this conflict.

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  • Tammy2tone

    Easy to find out. The second a guy slides his cock down your throat you will know.

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  • mysistersshadow

    Try it and find out.

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    • Cheet0

      I tend to agree with you MSS... Been there myself, mutual trading and still am not sure myself...

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