I can't figure out who my friends are and who my enemies are.
I'm a really bad judge of character apparently, and I'm worried that the answer is that they're all my enemies.
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I'm a really bad judge of character apparently, and I'm worried that the answer is that they're all my enemies.
It's a common thing in our society to not be able to tell between friends and enemies. Maybe just give it a little more time and observe the people around you more?
Don't chase them. Let them chase you. The constant ones are the true ones.
Read this book!
Safe People: How to Find Relationships That Are Good for You and Avoid Those That Aren't
by Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend
people are like those swat bots from "sonic the hedgehog": they're all built the same way, and pretty much think the same way. Figure out how their minds work before befriending them if you want them to like you.