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Is it normal to think that there is no point in working hard at anything or trying to make a good life for myself if I can't get laid ever?
Lol, seriously? Get a life! Not trying to be rude. Just being blunt. Sex isn't everything.
Lol. I had to laugh at this. I have the same thought though. I see the point of sex as "making love", it needs to be passionate.
You apparently are one of those guys who need to have an ego boost with sex... get a life! Go hang with your friends and family, go read a book, get a job you'll enjoy, take a stroll in the park and be happy with your damn self. Also find an actual woman. Just saying...
Sex is everything sex and companionship are the only valuable things in this life everything else is just stuff wait health is important too
Your a virgin because u think u are too cool for women or because you are afraid of failure I read your profile. You desperately want to be seen as aloof and cool. However this is far from the truth you care desperately about what people think of you and if you thought getting a tan and wearing Abercrombie would make you more accepted you would do it in a heartbeat. for real who are you trying to be an emo dexter and you come acrossed as a bit of a mysoginist and I would bet the reason for this is that every woman in your life has rejected you. I'm usually not this harsh but I rarely come across such blatant posers
Then I gues the guy look quite attractive, because I've had nothing but compliments.
You actually look a lot like this guy I know who goes to the same college as me. He happens to be a California surfer guy but he also loves girls with tats and piercings and is into the industrial/hard rock stuff.
But he goes around for sure too, he gets a lot of women apparently. But I would never go for him.
Don't take this the wrong way though... I don't really know you ItDuz... but just saying.
Somewhat normal. At times I get a little tense when I haven't had sex in a while. It's a nice stress reliever.
But meditation is a healthy medium. To me at least..
Nothing is more attractive than a successful man!
A loser is lucky to get laid at all.
If I had a disability, I would worry about the things disabled people worry about. But I don't know what is wrong with me. I'm convinced there IS something, but I just don't think I will ever figure out what it is.
anyone can get laid. it's just a question of what you're willing to do to get it.
or rather how far you're willing to sink ... cos hey there's always the red-light-district if you're desperate enough :)
Ah, but he might not live in Nevada, or be anywhere close to the state. There's also the fact that only a certain number of counties in Nevada have legalized prostitution and I think there's only a few number of brothels within each county.
And even then you can find it if you know where to look.
Hell I once had a friend get propositioned on the street in Honolulu. He turned her down because he didn't feel like he should have to pay for it.
but yeah it's out there.
just use protection of course. and look out for the decoys / cops ;-)
Anyone can get laid, its just a question of how much money you have.
Have you eaten your own penis?
Alright listen, forget about the eating penis part, unless you are really hungry or mentally ill, in which case go for it. Forget about paying for it.
Where is the motivation coming from that your self worth is wrapped around having to get laid? Are you a virgin? If thats the case I can understand a little, if you arent then you have had sex before and know that its much like the Shakespeare play "Much ado about Nothing".
You realize most women use this brain washing that men seem to be under regarding sex to further their own agendas when it comes to dating and ultimately marriage, right? Even though its all about equality. Let me tell you something brother, there aint nothing equal about it at all.
Think about the reason you want it so bad, is it because personally you do, or because you respond to this pressure of society that everyone isnt whole and perfect unless they are having sex, and then gossiping about it afterwards, which to many is more enjoyable then the actual act.
No, I'm not a virgin. I do understand your point with the "much ado about nothing" quote. I don't totally agree, I think sex is great, but I do see what you mean. Its a self esteem issue because the amount of rejection I have experienced. I want to have sex with girls, and when they don't want to have sex with me, it affects my self esteem I guess. Why would they not want to have sex with me? Obviously I don't expect to be able to sleep with any girl I want or even most of them, but I can only imagine that the average person is able to get laid AT LEAST a few times a year. Not this guy though. I haven't gotten any since Halloween 2010.
Halloween 2010.
Its August 2010 for me. And counting.....
Fuck the bullshit.
It is deffinatly a self esteem issue. If you have a low self esteem everyone around, that may be interested, will notice it. I am 30 years old and got divorced about a year ago, for about the first couple of weeks following the divorce I had a fairly grim outlook on myself, I viewed the divorce as the ultimate rejection. I luckily had a friend and coworker to smack me around (figurtivly of course), she pointed out that I was still young, athletic, and in very good shape, and had (with the exception of those couple of weeks) great personality. I used her words to boost my self esteem and since then have had no issues when going out to the bar, a club, the gym, or even just grocery shopping a couple of times coming out on top when it comes to talking to women. Don't get me wrong, I have been rejected more times then I can count, for one reason or another, but I have learned that everyone that I see as attractive and want to talk to, does not see the same in me. We ar all different people, none of us fit the idea of what everyone wants, because everyone is looking for someone different. First make friends, both male and female, allow those that are true friends to help you out, let them tell you good things and let them explain where you may be lacking, take a good look at yourself at the same time, What do you like about yourself? what do you not like about yourself? work to change what you don't like, and focus on bringing those things that you do like to the forefront of your personallity and appearance. Anyway Good luck and happy hunting.
Its not just not being able to get laid, but also not being able to get a girlfriend, but naturally, if you have a girlfriend you should be having sex, at least in my book.
Like it or not but sex IS what makes the world go round. You know why? Because without it, there would be no life! People have sex for different reasons but the purpose of sex is to reproduce. Saying that, I know men who are in their late 20's- late 30's who are still virgins and it doesn't get them down at all. These men are making a lot of money because their main focus..? Their careers :)
Just be cleaver.. I walked in a store and asked to use the bathroom i told the little hottie working that i could almost pee myself and her look was not a bad look she was kinda put off. I squeezed my dick a little because someonecwas in the bathroom and i was trying to puah it out its kinda hard to pee with clothes on. I felt a little come out and then more maybe it was noticable to her that i was trying to pee she kept looking at my crotch i ended up peeing a small amount but enough put a good wet spot. And i was getting hard her face was so red and she looked horny when yhe bathroom opend for me i went in closed the door kneeled on the counter facing the window spitting alot on it i tried to make it really noisy so she could hear and even let out a few little moans. I blew a huge load on the mirror and even some on my shirt when i walked out of the batheoom she was looking like she was out of breath i told her somethingcwas wrong with the mirror but b4 she went in to look she gave me her number. I talked to her after and she masterbated as well and left the cum there we would fuck 4 times a day in public in the car she was fun we would walk threw the supermarket and she would get a look i would say do it and she would pee changing rooms were awesome waiting outside few other people around ahe would start masterbating could hear the hand slapping her pusay and ahe would moan. Everyrhing waa fun so do something a lil crazy that you like and someone will follow
keep trying on some level..i have very low self esteem..and anxiety..but have developed some degree of social and interpersonal skillls...these skills are not hard to develop and dont take a genius but you would be absolutely stunned at how few people possess them..i am talking about having manners...not manners in a drippy sorry way but a confident type ofmanners that make other people feel good..and then learning how to listen and makeeople talk about things they like or themselves...people love to talk about themselves and have no problem talking on and on....
in fact you will see not only how easy it isbut how self centered most people are ...even those real hot chicks are mostly self centered...when you see this you wont be all that impressed by them....
and then have a sense of humor...you dont have to be a stand up comedien...in fact that funny can sometimes turn women off because it is to much ...just a little witty...someone who sees the funny side of things thats all...you dont have to be a jokestar...just have a sense of fun...
you have these simple skills and try to keep you self in shape physically...again..not hours in the gym..just do some type of workout here and there ..it actually is for you more than anyone else.
you have to really wanna get that shit bro. ull get there just want it bad!!
maan.,,, get ur shit straight then you gonna be a pussy magnet foshoo!! lol
So what youre telling us is,we would not want to see your house under a black light because we would see pecker tracks everywhere.
just stop obsessing about it and you will get lucky soon enough. Besides, masturbation is underrated hehe ;)
That is sooo true. Wack that chicken till' you get that one lol. Trust me you will man.
Anyway try going out with friends. Depending on who yo hang out with that can influence your mood?? Me n my peeps act the same way. So if I see one of my friends enjoying himself with a female,That makes me want to talk to Ms.Gorgeous standing by herself over there.
IDK I'm trying to help out
Dude, i can agree with everybody here saying sex isnt everything. Get a life. And btw, self sucking is much better than sex in my opinion. Only i know how i like it. I broke up with my last girlfriend for that exact reason. Dont mock it till u try it.
There is way more to life than sex. Just wait until the day you have a brilliant job, a wonderful home and you have finally fallen in love. Yeah sex is an incredible feeling, but it doesn't last long. Love lasts long. Grow up and enjoy the one life you have. Make the most of it :)
If you really want sex then just get a hooker. Sex is something amazing you should experience
well i wouldn't count that as normal, but on today's standards... i don't even know.
stop being so superficial.
Well I am in my late twenties and I have just been getting rejected my whole life so it makes me feel like a piece of shit.
Sleep with hookers
If you have no money try a doing little rape (just dont get caught - planning is the key)