I can't have sex dreams, help

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I'm a female and I'm a virgin so I've never had sex, but I do masturbate. Sometimes I have dreams where I'm masturbating while thinking of certain scenarios, but goddammit I want to have SEX in my dreams!!! >:( I can't have sex with the person I like in real life, so I want to do it in my dreams, or at least kiss him... I have never had sex in a dream it's so unfair.. What do I have to do??? Is there any way I can make myself more likely to have a sex dream?

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Cuntsiclestick

1 year ago

Google how to lucid dream. That might be the thing you're looking for.
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darefu

1 year ago

Well, you may not be able to have sex in Your dreams but you can in mine. I just fit you right in last night, we had a good time, You had a good time, your no longer a dream virgin. You were the party favor are you sore this morning?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  1 year ago
  
  No I want to have sex with a certain someone not just anyone in my dream
  
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Anonymous Post Author

1 year ago

No I view us as having an equal relationship because I am not powerful or controlling I am a very passive person and I'm vulnerable and naive like a kid.

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- Scouselad
  
  1 year ago
  
  Like a kid how old are you
  
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  - Anonymous Post Author
    
    1 year ago
    
    I'm 25 but I have autism that affects my mental age.
    
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    - Scouselad
      
      1 year ago
      
      Ok so do what you think is right it’s great sex the feeling is amazing but you got to really trust the person your wirh not just anyone
      
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      - Anonymous Post Author
        
        1 year ago
        
        It has to be in a dream cause I can't have this person in real life for multiple reasons 1 being because it's literally impossible
        
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  - Scouselad
    
    1 year ago
    
    You got to be 18 to be in the chat
    
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ospry

1 year ago

Having sex in a dream doesn't always result in an orgasm. I've had dreams where I was having sex and couldn't come. In that case I would've strongly preferred to have had a regular dream because at least that wouldn't have been frustrating

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  1 year ago
  
  I know, but I just thought that... If I could meet the person I love in my dream... Then... I could at least at one point know what it felt like to feel love... Because it's impossible for me to experience love in the real world. And don't say it's not - it is. Trust me.
  
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  - 1234tellmethatyoulovememore
    
    1 year ago
    
    It's not impossible. That hurts my heart you would believe that about yourself <3 you are worthy of love. You deserve love.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      1 year ago
      
      I don't think I am deserving of love, even though I didn't choose to be this way... Many people have told me so, so I believe them
      
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      - 1234tellmethatyoulovememore
        
        1 year ago
        
        You're worthy of love, and to be touched, and felt, and held. Anyone who told you differently had something wrong with them where they couldn't love themselves correctly and took it out on you.
        
        The mentality of, "No one is owed anything" is wrong. Everyone is owed love and basic human compassion. It's not our choice to be brought into this world. You do deserve love. You are a lovable person despite what anyone has told you. I hope you can find someone who can show you that within yourself someday. The hardest thing is coming to love yourself though. You can have hundreds of people love you and still not love yourself. Just know you are worthy of love, including loving yourself.
        
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  - ospry
    
    1 year ago
    
    Sounds like the sex pales in comparison to affection and acceptance. I won't try to convince you it's impossible for you to feel love in the real world. Why do you believe that though?
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      1 year ago
      
      Because the person I like has been dead for a long time and also the kind of thing I'm attracted to is unobtainable or forbidden. That's why.
      
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