I can't stand being called a fag and go out of my way to avoid it
The fear of being labelled a fag has governed my life on occasion. e.g. the contents of my iPod should a friend sort through it, the contents of my game and movie libraries, my habits, etc. I know for a fact I'm never going to play soccer or watch anime in my life for this reason.
At the same time, I also want approval from those who are the type to call me that. I feel that if I get that, I've triumphed, that I'm untouchable, if those of all people aren't attacking me. Fighting the ridicule with whatever resilience/integrity I have just isn't good enough, especially relative to the former.