I cannot be friends with men

At 23 it's time to give up the emo/fanboy look and be a normal person.

You can still geek out, but once out of HS I mean, all it does it paint a target on your back.

I kind of know what you're going through. It may be that when you are around the guys you think of as friends, you are yourself and that is attractive. I have had the same kind of thing. Whenever I have a guy friend that I think of as only that, he likes me as more, but he knows he's stuck in the friend zone and he has to accept it.

"I am abnormally attractive and thus irresistible "...you do think highly of yourself. However men of your age see fucakable and nonfuckable. You're someone to be used and discarded. So get over yourself.

I’ve had shitty luck too. My best friend I ever had at the time for years ended when all he’d say to me was sexual things or try and talk about how big his dick is to me. We were close too but it was obvious his intentions tho he knew I’m not interested. He was always flirty in general but he really would try and get whatever he can. Which was another thing he was taken while he was his worst toward me.

I’ve had lots of guys be nice and hangout with me and it’s awesome but none stay when they find out I’m taken or not interested. It’s shitty. I used to think I hate when people say opposite genders can’t be friends cause that’s untrue. But I haven’t had much luck with that myself.

I’ve gotten along better with guys in the past. Probably one of the bigger things that makes me talk with guys more is my interest in cars I connect with guys more on that but almost every one so far turns it sexual. Can a lady express her love for cars fuck. The sexism I experience with this too is a whole nother damn story. I often avoid talking about the things I love talking about most.

I am a girl and have a small group of heterosexual male friends, but they're pretty geeky/nerdy and I think they're more focused on video games and such than girls. I've also known most of them since we were kids, so that may be part of it. If any of them would like to be more than friends, they've kept it to themselves and have done a good job of hiding it.

Sometimes my best friend acts like he'd like to be with me again (we dated very briefly in high school and you could barely call it a relationship), but he doesn't push and has also agreed with me that he thinks it's best that we just stay friends.

I have had a couple in the past want to be more than friends and kept begging over and over again after I had politely told them I wasn't interested, but that was only maybe one or two.

I'm not sure why guys are acting that way towards you, to be honest. Has it been a lot of guys, or just a few? Also, what age group are you in? I find that this is most common as teenagers and early 20's (at least that's when it happened to me).

Men like (borderline-Aspie?) weird girls like that, as they like to fuck. They are often more straight-up about sex... in my experience...
men like sex with the LEAST amount of bullshit possible, not the most challenge, a lot of the time. When we're already competing with women in the workplace, then having to do the 'equal' (not!) work of seduction and paying for meals, whatever, is a real grind, even for attractive women that motivate us to WANT to in the first place. The overall picture is just sullied.
So, men want what they want, and don't blame them for being men.
I know women out there who fuck anything that moves, steal their friends' boyfriends or fuck-buddies, are two-faced as fuck, and then complain that a man might touch their bottom when they're drunk walking down the street wanting the attention. They can't handle their sexual power with any honour, yet expect men to reciprocate this non-existent decency. THAT kind of hypocrisy is the REAL problem out there. If you can manage to avoid that, and not abuse men and vice-versa, then enjoy life and appreciate it.
What's the problem?
So when there's a sexy-enough, alternative-thinking, perhaps DTF woman available, men might be more likely to push for sex.

Tell them you're a lesbian and not interested in men, from the start.

In my experience, when it comes to being friends with guys, it's mostly either one or the other:
The guy sees me as more than a friend, acts on it, I reject him, and I have to end the friendship
or
If he has no interest in me sexually, his girlfriend will accuse me of trying to take him and will proceed to follow me around and make threats or force him to end the friendship. I usually get stuck dealing with the first type of woman. XD

Tbf, this sounds like fair reasoning. I can see how the person you describe would have the effects you've outlined on men.

You could probably get some soyboy and friendzone him, but I'm guessing that's not what you're after?

Also, do you like Warhammer and Runescape?

Males tend to flirt jokingly too I know I do even to other males yet I'm not attracted to them . Them being the foul creatures they are

So, whenever a male friend of your's asks you out, you just end the friendship? I don't get why someone asking you on a date would end your friendship.

Same here. I still have tons of dude friends. I just tell them to piss offehen they try to get fresh.

Yep, I’ve found it only works out if they either already have a gf, are age 30+, or high functioning autistic

One thing to add. Chris Rock told a joke in his stand up routine that is very true. I thought it could give you some insight. He said, "Girls have friends that are guys. Guys just know girls they haven't slept with yet". You also gotta realize "guy" mentality. When you can think like a guy, you can understand them better.