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Sure the people doing the ofs are snakes for taking advantage of a persons loneliness and giving them false intimacy but at the end of the day the people giving them the money are adults who made the choice to pay a stranger instead of rent. I do not feel sorry for them when they wind up destitute. Actions have consequences.
Only Fans is gross. I don't think of a person who wastes all their money on Only Fans as lonely, but as a pathetic loser to tell you the truth.
One of my friends wanted to get into OnlyFans only for me to tell her that there are better jobs than OnlyFans.
If I wanted to send money I do it elsewhere those include sending it family members or friends if they need it of course ( sending it that isn't OnlyFans ).
Either way OnlyFans is just a stupid concept, a stupid concept I never got when it took off to be very frankly honest with you.
Apparently, responsibility has gone out the window. These men aren't poor victims being exploited and taken advantage of. They know what they are doing and willingly choosing to waste their money on a bunch of internet whores, like the desperate financially irresponsible dimwits that they are. It's their money, and whatever they do with it is their responsibility.
Also, the "false intimacy" argument is just ridiculous and plain stupid because these men should be well aware that it's not real. If they're too dumb to realize that the only reason these girls are even interacting with them is because they're getting paid, that's on them.
Calling insecure (emotionally and often financially) women that have been groomed since puberty to see themselves as sex objects (many of OF creators are sexual assault victims to boot) "harpies" lol just say you hate women.
I can't knock the people that produce OF content. If I was an attractive woman, I would 100% be doing the same stuff.
Don't get me wrong, the people who pay for porn (or pseudo-porn in many cases) in 2023 are stupid. It's just good business sense on the womens' part.
So women have the agency to choose to market themselves as sex objects but men don't have the agency to not engage with sex work? We should feel sorry for these men and women are the villains?
It's hypocritical.
Why the hell would anyone pay for that shit when there is literally free porn all over the internet? Anyways, I have zero respect for both Onlyfans creators and viewers.
Customized products. Also most onlyfans customers are lonely and the models offer communication besides sexy videos. It's like a Geisha service I've heard. The onlyfans model will talk to you, and you can request her to make stuff specifically for you. Stuff she knows you would like. You're basically paying her to be your pretend online girlfriend.
When I was lonely during quarantine, I was lucky enough to find a woman online desperate enough to offer me this arrangement for completely free of charge. She was so into it. She loved taking saucy photos of herself and webcamming with me.
I broke things off before it could get too serious. She's a bit too much of an exhibitionist for my liking. But she did help me through quarantine. Other guys are less lucky than me, and had to pay other women to get what I got for free from this random hottie I met totally by accident on a forum.
The same reason people pay for movies even though there are free movies everywhere.
I said since puberty learn2read. And I'm not treating women like children, I think they should be regarded as people. OF is a bad decision to make and I'm aware of that, but we don't necessarily villanize people who make the wrong decisions. "Harpies" is legit a word that belongs in the dark ages
Eh, as a guy who's used a lot of porn and never paid for it, I don't think the "taking advantage of loneliness" thing is real. Not on OnlyFans, anyway. I think the people wasting money on this stuff are simply stupid and horny.
It's kind of like the microtransaction thing over in the video game market... which is also oddly similar to the cult market. Everyone who doesn't buy/buy into them has no idea how people fall into it. It's a slow burn. You start by buying one, usually because you're vulnerable... and then another... then maybe a little bit more... then it becomes a habit... until eventually you're "that guy" with multiple OnlyFans subscriptions. If you're wondering why I started with Candy Crush and ended with OnlyFans in this paragraph, it's because that's just how it goes.
Maybe videogames are the cause of so many simps in our society. Back in the day when boys weren't brainwashed by videogames and porn, they used to grow into real men.
Those people are addicts. They spend more on porn than they can afford. That makes them porn addicts.