I don't get how people make friends

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I am a girl and other girls are friendly with me, I can make them talk, laugh, etc. but beyond that, nothing. As with guys, they invite me to go out with them, but most of the time that's another matter.

I am simply asking about friendships, esp. with other women. how does it happen? I don't understand, is everyone in their 20's just looking for romantic/sexual relationships so they don't even bother unless they can get something out of it? IIN?

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Based on 18 votes (17 yes)
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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    It starts with communication, which it seems is happening, but going no further. Once you know you have interests in common, suggest you do something together connected with those interests. If you have no interests in common there's probably no basis for friendship anyway

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  • peterrabbyt3
    7 years ago

    Ring ring hello, I always wanted to eat your cunt...

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  • keru
    7 years ago

    *ring ring* Uh, hello.. Wanna meet up for coffee?

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  • Smokey1D
    7 years ago

    Friends are really someone to hang out with when you don't want to be alone They're not perfect. You don't own them and you should respect them. Enjoy spending time with them. Go somewhere with them and broaden your horizons and build your confidence . You're already half-way there by talking and laughing with them. They might be as anxious about it as uou are!

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  • Jesseriely
    7 years ago

    Could I be your boyfriend?

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    It can be difficult to meet other females who are good friendship material, there are some cool chicks, but they're rare jewels. I tend to not be particularly interested in other women who hang out in big packs, I like people who can be individuals.

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  • Tealights
    7 years ago

    Unless you've grown up with the guy (either from childhood or throughout highschool), making friends with men in their late teens and early 20s or in general are extremely difficult. Most of the time, men mainly approach women for sexual/romantic reasons.

    As for friendships with women, that's difficult too since a lot of them are competitive, and often times don't talk about anything worthwhile. So it's hit and miss. You may eventually meet a cool laidback girl.

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