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I actually don't like any of my 'friends' they bore me, an we always do the same things. I don't even like talking to them anymore.. Anybody else feel this way? I'm aware people may think they aren't really friends but the only reason I keep them around is because I get bored?
i consider my friends a chore like entertaining the local mentally deficient wheelchair 30 year old not a joke some1 has 2 do it
I'm in the same situation. I have really boring friends that just do the same boring things. I simply can NOT stand them. There's one in particular who used to be my best friend. She still thinks we're best friends, but I wish she would just leave me alone. :/
Hi! The same thing is happening to me. My friend Cloe is WAYYY to clingy and there is this groups of girls I want to become friends with but she's just chasing them away because she doesn't like them and they don't like her! And my friend Anna is also boring. She's scared to text guys or like meet them at the movies and its really boring hanging out with her!!!!
I think it's normal to secretly dislike your friends. I don't like mine either, but since nothing better comes around, why not?
i know how you are feeling. right now, i am hanging with these 2 girls who have nothing in common with me whatsoever. the bore me most of the timr.Its like whenever they laugh , i dont cuz i dont find it funny. So, i have been thinking of changing groups but still remain friends with them. i know its kinda hard to do that, but in the long run, u'll be happier i think.. anyway, give it a try , take it 1 step at a time.
I love my friends. I don't really feel the need to continue a boring relationship. Its a waste of time, I would rather be alone reading or working out.
I usually change my group of friend every 2-3 years and its has worked out good with me. I will occasionally chat up an old friend or rekindle a friendship.
So no, I never keep dull relationships.
I have the same problem, been looking for someone to talk to who feels the same, wanna talk?
Actually.. I don't mind my friends but to be honest.. I don't connection with some of my friends because I know if I voice my opinion they won't like me anymore or they will get mad.. We have different opinions on things..
I like people who are similiar to me. Similiar religion <3, similiar interests.. I dont need an EXACT replica of myself.. to hang out with but if you meet people who understand you and feel the same way you do.. you'll connect/ agree with them more.. than someone who has totally opposite opinions
I dunno..
Yeah I have had a friend that I knew for a while and we always do the same things all the time butt I know he feels the same way and he leaves me out in stuff
sounds normal but it also sounds like you need some new friends, friends you have more in common with. hope you find some!
More or less people get bored when they are with certain people for a long time. It's kinda like you have finish knowing a person like there's nothing left to know or smt liddat.(or they're just boring ppl)
Try hanging around with a new group of people then.
That OR you might have SPD! O.o! If you still get bored even after changing friend many times i mean.
"Schizoid personality disorder (SPD) is a personality disorder characterized by a lack of interest in social relationships, a tendency towards a solitary lifestyle, secretiveness, and emotional coldness."
I'm not trying to scare you though. xD Just personally think that it is one cool personality disorder.
My friends are hopeless, they literally have no future and all they eat is friend ramen all day what do I do, I try to fit in with other groups that's fun but I can't because they won't accept me and one of my friends is a fat toast eating pig
I have three groups of friends and I feel the same way about them, one more than others. I've gone through quite a few different groups though, I've discarded all the 'fun' assholes and jerks. Who wants to be around buttholes anyway, their stupid opinions are like always uninformed.
One group I've known since kindergarten, and all they do is complain or talk smug about their romances and family. They hold onto pathetic hopeless romanticisms that will probably stop them from ever being at peace in their lives, every little lover is hyper important to them. And it's so repetitive. It's like dude, life doesn't have to be a novella. Learn how to fu#; buy books and dvds if you have to, know what kind of personality you can deal with, how to do romantic things and be useful to your significant other, and get over it. Don't deny your own fetishes if you have any, get with someone who's into the same stuff as you, and you're set.
The other group is one I've met in college. They are smart people, but they like to waste money a lot on trying 'new' things like going to crappy restaurants, bars, and talking about relationships (again fme). They into the whole college swag crap, I'm not. I like talking about science stuff and history with them, which is probably the only reason I'm still hanging out with them. I only get mad around this group if I have to spend money and I didn't learn anything useful around them. Or if they act like wimps in a dangerous situation, which has happened. I get bored with them because to be honest they prefer doing things kids do in high school (having 'experiences').
The last group is probably my favorite. It's a mashup of old outcast friends from hs. But the thing that annoys me is one guy keeps talking about how much he loves the military, THAT gets annoying, but he doesn't always do it. But we like teaching each other new things like finance (for financial stability and future decision making), talking about current events, history, 'prototype' ideas for inventions, etc.Most of what we talk about were really familiar or well informed about, otherwise we research it. I'm a physics major, the other is in mechanical engineering, and one is a computer science guy. I think most people would be bored out of their mind in this group but I see these guys genuinely going somewhere in the future and doing important things outside of their own liveslater on. They might get sidetracked by relationships but they never lose sight that they want to help others in the future.
Even I get bored sometimes around these guys, it's normal.
i dont like my friends either.
but im always bored so i sat with them for couple of hours then go and watchh a movie.
so i know wt ur feeling right now.
the first step is the hardest step but do it and is to find new frds and leave the others.
maybe its hard cz u cant do it.they still ur old frds but trust me u should do it u cant keep living with frds u dont like them!