I don't want to be gay

I'd second the advice given by the "several people" + Millie.

I'd also add on that it's best to just accept your sexuality. Being bi doesn't mean you have to find a random trans person and schmooze them. You could try being poly or having an open relationship.

What's most important, though, is to go with what you really want in the moment. You will be able to tell if it's not working out. If you've already gotten the same advice from multiple people and you're still having doubts, that's probably because you already have your mind set on a particular thing and you just don't want to go. Just go!

A really honest and sincere post. I can relate because I went through the same struggle in my 20's. I went from str8 to gay back to str8 and finally settled on bi. I hope you resolve it.

Yeah it's easier being heterosexual. Totally understandable you wouldn't choose to be gay... if it was a choice.

It's not a choice though. At least not a choice you make consciously for yourself. Maybe it's a choice made by God or by your destiny or whatever the fuck deity you pray to. So you just accept it and live with it.

You're probably bi though, to some extent. Since you mention liking girls at one point. Why not just try going out with a hetero trans girl or a feminine bi guy and see how it goes. Dating doesn't even have to get sexual instantly. Whatever feels natural and comfortable to you. They might even appreciate it that you want to get to know them as a person first, before jumping into bed together. That sense of depth and genuineness can be sexy.

If you dont want to be gay first thing you do is quit listening to all these global-homo supporting liberals. Being gay is a choice. Sorry I know its ground breaking stuff here but you CHOOSE to put a cock in your mouth. Dont put the cock in your mouth. Dont let them tell you you were born like this. They're like a cult and that shits like a religion.

I have heard more gay people use the word faggot when talking to each other than I have heard it used as an insult against them. It's kind of funny.
It's probably more common to be bi with a gay leaning than it is to be fully gay, I think...don't know what that has to do with anything just an observation.

Yeah we'll you're only fooling yourself here not me. When you were born you did not know that, you I'm sorry but you just do not make any sense, problem here is that you probably have this idea in your mind that I am trying to tell you otherwise you said so when you said you know yourself better than I know you, but I'm not I promise you just do not want to see the bigger picture you want to remain close minded which is fine with me but when someone knows something and sees someone trying to put their opinion over the actual truth then that someone needs to tell the that person and that's what I'm doing. How do I know is probably what you're asking yourself now but you know better and if you do not then you're fooled. I'm not trying to argue or make an enemy but you're not going to sit up here and try to be bold with a lie to yourself and a lie to others and a lie to me

those were examples and you are using them to say that I'm comparing appeal with cars because you'll do anything to use some sort of a distraction, I used them on purpose and you fell for it, if I didn't give you that example you'd probably wouldn't have anything to say, I set it up and you took the bate. You are failing to state why you are that way

you're confused

Gay or straight, sexual desires should never have this much control over you, your problem is one of self discipline
The way you talk about your desires is unhealthy, the subject isn’t the issue it’s your behavior

You can not control who you are attracted to, but you must be able to control how you handle your attractions. And letting sexual thoughts cause you this much distress is unacceptable

Hey PinkPickle, saying that is like saying someone is born a republican or a democrat which is totally false. What ever you gay, straight, or bi is a choice to choose. Are people born Chevrolet fans or Ford fans? No! You're being ridiculous

Stop your moral superiority virtue signaling. Lets just talk about the facts.

I didnt go into the gene part because you said something about 25% of being gay is biological which is actually a small number if you think about it. That means according to your numbers 75% of being gay is due to other things. Id argue its your environment.

California is not the only gay hub in America. When I look at my old classmates facebook theyre all getting married and have women on them. I dont see them with men. But then you go to Miami, or NYC, or Portland, Seattle and you have gay kids everywhere. The fact that some areas produce more gay kids should tell you something.

Ive noticed by traveling to different areas of the country when you go to the far left winy liberal parts where being gay is celebrated you have more gay ppl. Where I grew up there was only 1 gay kid out of hundreds in my highschool, and btw no one picked on him really for being gay he came to all the parties he hung out with the girls.

Liberals will claim that the explanation for less gays in my area is these would be gay ppl are basically straight because of their environment but then they turn around and say you can not become gay based on your environment. The other argument is its because its stigmatized in conservative areas and thats why you see less gays, but why arent you seeing a large amount of people leaving for liberal areas to go be gay? Its almost like you are more likely to be gay based on where you're born and your environment.

I wasnt comparing them morally but using your same logic. What gene is it that you are born with that makes you gay? Can you take a blood test? And explain why places that are more liberal have more than 5x the amount of gay kids? Is it in the water?

I don't wanna like Lil MJ but I just do. You should thank your lucky stars that you have a societally accepted sexuality.

With your same logic are people born ped0s? And if so do you think its ok for them to act on it since they were born that way? Idk why being gay is such a sacred thing. Theres no gay gene theres nothing you can point to that says you were born that way.