I don't want to live anymore bc i'll never experience love. iin?

I've never understood being sad because someone doesn't love you. If someone loves me good, if not that's their loss not mine. If I love someone & I think for a second they don't love me I 'll quit loving them in a heart beat like all the good times never happened, it's like flipping a switch or deleting a file they're just not there anymore.

I think people have a skewed understanding of love. They think love is holding hands and having sex and kissing but no, thats not love. Thats mating. thats relationships and sex. and in many ways it over laps with love but in no way are the two the same thing. In fact love isn't even required for that to even happen.

Love is being able to listen to your favourite song and cry.
Love is being able to stare into the sky with wonder.
Love is when you wake up to birds chirping and the sun in your eyes.
Love is when theres sudden silence between when the laundry machines stops and runs again.

The world is full of love. Find that love first, because that love is real love. And the moment you find a person that makes you feel the same way those things make you feel, thats real love. But you don't need to find a girl for that. Finding a relationship will come in time.

I can assure you I hate to look in the mirror. I used to look like shit (i still do tbh). But iv'e still gotten girls, and it's got nothing to do with my looks. It's about confidence, being funny and putting yourself out there, and it's about being a nice person to be with. If you think of yourself as a hideous piece of garbage, girls can feel that too. and trust me, you're not ugly. If you have a face with all your limbs attached, thats still pretty good. A good haircut and dressing nicely can elevate you to be more attractive. If you ever feel to ugly, just remember Danny DeVito has a wife, and so did Louie CK. Well they aren't necessarily model material either eh?

I take it you're quite young? 19-24? If you're below 19 then you're going to have to fake it until you make it, it's honestly common for people not to have met "the love of their life" by then and people younger than that age truly are superficial and isn't your time to blossom but to prepare.

If you are physically unattractive (I honestly doubt this, most average guys assume they're ugly) then I'll give a stereotypical answer here. Put some effort into working out and/or work on your public appearance both with fashion and how you socially interact with people. A very important thing is to actually keep a look around you socially, there will be women on your level that are available that you may be overlooking and they may be on the same boat as you.

Build yourself up in every way you can to compensate for your short comings. You'd be surprised how successful you could be in finding a woman if you've got a job, a cosy home, good fashion-sense (not to be confused with expensive fashion-sense), and a bit of charm. All of these things are available to you if you put the work in.

Shit can be hard but that's life and romance is a work in progress. As a guy you're gonna have a lot of misses before you get the catch, just be ready for that and don't assume one miss or even ten is the end of the world. You got it, bro, just don't be lazy and you've got it.

First of all, despair isn’t the answer. Snap out of it. Second, you have to give love to get it. Whom have you felt love for recently, and really felt it? If you have, did you tell them? I’m a firm believer in it all starts with you.

Love is complicated, but don't give up, you never know what is in store for you. I know that sounds much easier said than done, but I believe that if something is important to you, you shouldn't give up on it.

I also believe that looks aren't everything, and you can always do things to improve yourself from the inside out. I think a very important but hard thing is to learn to accept yourself for who you are and be content with that person. If you cannot be happy with who you are and love yourself, nobody else will be able to, either. I know this is hard, but it is worth it to do your best to work towards it by doing things that make you feel good about yourself. That was how I slowly but surely built confidence and improved my self esteem. If there are things about yourself you think could be improved or that you dislike, and you have at least some degree of control over them, make a plan to improve or change those things.

I really hope things work out for you and you're able to find what you're looking for.

Volunteer at an animal shelter and go biking outside. There is a lot more to life than just getting a girlfriend.

What is it about yourself that makes you think you are so ugly?

Hello, my brother. I felt an instant bond with your despair as I was reading your story. I, like you, will never experience love nor sex because I am a eunuch due to surgical complications. When you are the lowest of the low, as we are, messages get confused in your head. The truth is that we all need to be touched. Touch is a basic human need; more basic than love or sex. Nothing can replace it.

When you realize that 80% of the starvation you are experiencing is masked beneath the social expectations for love, procreation, and generativity in life, then you will be on the path to nurture your soul. You have to start slow. Get a deep shoulder massage for ten minutes or so. If you play a musical instrument you can generate a warm comforting sense of touch as if your instrument were human. I have a guitar, and she sings real pretty when I touch her with a whisper.

Be gentle with yourself, my friend. The sunshine and crisp breeze on your face can remind you that you are swimming in a sea of life. Remember that getting laid comes with a whole laundry list of complications. Peacefulness for you and others like the two of us, is close at hand.

hi, from what you've said it sounds like you are focusing on the prospect of love when you should be focusing on your own mental health. i don't mean this in a bad way at all, i just think that once you're in a better head space you will find it much easier to accept love from others. have you considered talking to a therapist?
also if it means anything at all, i (f) often find myself attracted to men who i wouldn't consider to be "good looking". everyone has a different perspective of beauty. it can take a long time to find a match

I've got some good news for.

First of all, you probably don't even look that bad.

Secondly, due to an arguably sexist move by the rules of life, even if you're hideous, you're arguably in way better shape than a straight woman of similar appearance.

Start paying attention to how often you see a woman with a man less attractive than her and how often you see a man with a woman less attractive than him. Obviously both situations happen but it's almost always the woman who is more attractive. Women aren't made with a cookie cutter, but it's hard to deny that on average they seem way less focused on looks than the average man is.

I'm not angelifying them here either. They can be just as shallow as a guy who is 100% focused on looks, but even shallow women are more likely to be extra fussed about money, social status, "power", and such more than looks. It's just usually not as important to them.

So while you're probably not even ugly, if you are, you still have a great shot at finding love. Find a woman you share a hobby or interest with. Make her laugh, but only by being yourself. Make her feel like you're a good guy and she can be safe and comfortable with you, but without being desperate or a pushover. Not only will they come to like you but they'll probably even start seeing you as cute.

If you're truly unattractive, I'm not going to lie to you and say it's not a disadvantage of sorts, but it would also be a huge lie to say that it's impossible or even unlikely for you to find love when you certainly can. Happens all the time.

(And any women reading this who feel unattractive, you're almost certainly not as unattractive as you think, seeing as how women tend to be harder on their own image. I'm not full of shit so I won't take back what I said about it arguably being a bigger disadvantage for women than men, but men aren't made with cookie cutters either.

Some men aren't shallow. In a way, just for not looking like what the media says you should look like, you get to enjoy a filter that cuts out guys who would have only wanted you for that if you did and it saves you from some guaranteed heartbreak.

Maybe there's a certain guy you like and you always see him date barbies. Well I assure you that guys can get really fucking tired of dating women with horrible attitudes who have been ruined by their own classically good looks and when these men finally experience a woman who is actually wanting love and looking to love, she seems like such an exotic being to him that she quickly becomes the most beautiful woman he's ever seen.)

Feeling is normal, you have your right to feel bad and no one can tell you otherwise. I think you should find a good, well-qualified psychotherapist that would help you find your way and answer your questions. I'm not sure if love is your real problem or maybe there's something else you don't even know about. YOU are your reason to live and I think you should learn how to love yourself in the first place, because parter and/or kids won't fix that for you, it's a dead end.

nap and never waking up again,crying every single night,seeing a couple or looking pictures or just reading the word 'girlfriend' makes my chest ache.
sounds normal to me[at least, i have all these]
someone will find you attractive someday...
how old are you dude?

define love, I never felt it, I wanted to die too, but some of my projects are pending

I feel something similar, sometimes. When it sucks, it really sucks, doesn't it ? I feel less unhappy about it when in the company of others who are also long-term single.

Have you considered a sex change?