I don't want to own pets.

I have nothing wrong with animals themselves - I have had two dogs, a cat, and some fish, growing up and I loved them all. But personally, I don't want to own any. I see them as a hassle, and my fiance agrees with me, if anything, we would get a fish tank possibly, but that is it! I don't know... I just don't have interest in walking a dog twice a day, changing a cat box, cleaning a bird/bunny cage.

Also, I think the fact that I had bad experiences with the pets growing up. I had a dog with epilepsy who went blind by cataracts - i watched him die when I was 4. My 14 year old dog suffered brain damage during a surgery for a bathroom problem. His heart accidentally stopped, depriving him of oxygen for 30 seconds, messing him up in the head, and he had to be put down. I current have a senile cat that cannot even find her own cat box, so it needs to be in the hall so she can easily find it. She gets diarrhea and vomits often and can barely keep food down. None of these are due to poor care - old age in every case.

is it normal that I would never want to own my own pet? I feel that the care is too much of a pain and I have suffered EMOTIONAL pain with the animals I have lived with.

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Comments ( 11 )
  • CraneyCrow

    So if you don't want to own pets, don't own pets. Why are you telling everyone? Nobody cares!

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  • Jweezee

    Here's a tip that's sure to be winner kiddo. Euthanize that nasty fuckin feline that your taking care of like a god damn new born baby. Sounds harsh but it sounds like he's Hurtin anyway.
    Then.., and listen closely.....gather in everyone.....GET A HEALTHY PUPPY OR SOME SHT.
    Some live more than 10 years. A little food water and shelter and you don't have to worry about pets dying all the Time.

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  • Josie_57

    personally i love having pets but its not for everyone, especially because of your past experiences, its horrible to watch a pet die.

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  • dom180

    For someone who has had pets who have died like yours have, to come to any other conclusion would be surprising. Normal.

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  • wardh07

    Your reasoning makes perfect sense... Normal.

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  • honeynut

    I'm the same way. I loved animals as a kid, but I don't want them now. My boyfriends German shepherd drives me nuts! He barks and howls off and on all night long keeping me awake, pees all over the floor when he gets excited, and I can't stand him. The cat has destroyed our couch, pooped in our bed, bit my son when he was trying to play with it. Seems like I'm just not an animal person anymore lol

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  • DeadPixel

    People have many reasons for (not) wanting them. Personally I love animals and have had all kinds. Let me just throw it out there though from my experience, a fish tank (or any other decent sized aquatic animal setup) is more work to maintain than a (healthy) cat. You might not have to buy as much food but they get gross quickly and easily and there's all kinds of parts and chemicals and stuff to deal with and it takes longer to clean compared to a litterbox. A tiny triops or betta tank or a bowl with 1-2 fish is decently easy though.

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  • pao

    i don t want pets.

    dont have them.

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  • littlelulu1999

    Don't own a pet. Society has its priorities totally screwed up when taking care of and needing dogs/cats takes priority over taking care of humans...have we alientated and hurt each other so much that we are turning to dogs/cats for the illusion of love? Jeez....humans need to start turning to loving and taking care of humans before dogs/cats start wipe us out with their diseases and waste....Planet of the DOGs/CATs....

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  • NorthernStar

    If you don't want to own pets, then don't own pets. No one cares!

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  • tori

    Sometimes I feel like you. I recently put down my 19 year kitty. Kidney failure. I cried and cried. 20 years ago I had to put down my 15 year old golden retriever. Hip dysplacia got a bad hold on him. I still have today one more kitty and 2 dogs. I cannot just go away without finding someone to watch them. And yet, I dont think I could live a full life without an adoring pet. I love them sooo much. I do have a goldfish also but you just can't hug and kiss them.

    What a quandary.

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