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Ive been alone for years now, i have tried making friends but everyone avoids me, is it normal? I like sitting outside in the moonlight and im searching for aliens. If youre interested in being my friend then please leave your comment below.
I think you should make an effort to find people with similar interests. Think of an activity you like and try to make friends centered around that.
i feel so alone these days,
I have three bff's but they really don't seem to like me any more, i feel like they tAlk behind my back because they don't want me to be friends with certain people, but foe some reason I want to be friends with them sooo badly, when all one of my friends just boss me and my other friend around, sometimes I feel like they exclude me aswell they r always on roblox together and I feel like they talk behind my back, but one of my friends try and look all innocent in front of me, what do I dp
Just decide wether your friends are worth keeping around. If you come to the conclusion that they don't treat you well. You should distance yourself from them. There's no point sticking around people who mistreat you. I don't mean to sound harsh but wallowing in your own loneliness isn't going to solve your problem. Sometimes we just have to move on from the negative people in our lives.
Intelligent people are inclined to be alone.
A lot of people assume intelligence and popularity are correlated. The truth is, making and keeping friends is the result of being exceptionally average in every way. If you have any trace of intelligence, the vast majority of people will misunderstand you and avoid you. People are only capable of acknowledging positive characteristics when it's ones they themselves possess, so even if someone is superior to them in every way, it will be completely unknown to and beyond the comprehension of the average person unless the knowledge of their superiority is passed along from another average person. This explains why average people will always triumph in popularity, while intelligent people will go unappreciated unless they succeed in accomplishing something revolutionary that progresses the human race.
Many intelligent people don't understand this and assume it's a problem with themselves, viewing the average people as superior, and leading them to adapt to their surroundings and degrade their character to fit in with the norm. On the other hand, the intelligent people who acknowledge their superiority stop associating entirely with the common people. The first group takes in the influence of inferior beings and decreases their mental potential in the process, while the second group lacks the utilitarian benefits of associating with other people. These are both undesirable outcomes. A middle ground needs to be met. The middle ground is that an intelligent person acknowledges that they must associate with other people to some degree in order to succeed, but that the opinions and influences of the associates must be given much less merit than their own. In other words, they must outwardly adapt to their surroundings, but inwardly remain the same person that they were. Most intelligent people will fall under the 1st or 2nd category, and die pathetic or alone. The 3rd category are the people written in history books.
This is all under the assumption that you're intelligent though. Maybe you don't have friends because you're just a fucking weirdo.
I don't have many friends either, most people that say to be my friends are people who want to fuck with me. Maybe you'll find someday someone who understands you and your uniqueness, and if you don't then that's okay too. Friends are just for not being alone and for superficial benefits, you don't need them if you're strong and care for yourself.
It's normal from my point of view, I've never had people stick around me for long. Embrace solitude, it's not a bad thing at all. I'm assuming you're just alone and not actually lonely . Although if you feel like you need friends then try finding people with similar interest even if it's on the Internet . The only friends I have are Internet friends .