I experience attraction to men when i learn they're gay/bi?
I can acknowledge a man is good looking, but it's hard to experience attraction unless I know he's queer. The moment I learn a man is straight, I practically don't give a fuck about him, no matter how handsome he was before. If a guy is gay/bi though, he could be 'average' but would immediately go up a few points in my book, attraction-wise.