I fear love

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Is it normal to fear having relationships or rather to fear that you'll love someone ?
I have this person I like and I really am so anxious to the point that I avoid the person and try my best to not cross paths with that person because I'm afraid that it'll get any worse.
I always fear when he looks at me and gets anxiety panics and just dash away.
I have already planned things just to not meet him soon like knowing what class he is in on the next school year so I can be on the different class from him.
It's really strange since I always see people trying their best to just have their crushes to notice them while I'm here, hiding from that person.
If this goes on, I can't even see myself having a relationship on near the future and I really don't plan to have any.

Is it normal to fear love?

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Yes its normal. Its smart too. I avoid people I start to like too. Id rather not waste time drooling over someone and then they just turn around and break my heart. So once I start even feeling the slightest I try to ignore it. Better to never love and never be hurt then love once and have your heart torn out.

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    • nikkiclaire
      5 years ago

      That is the saddest thing I have ever read. 😢

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  • lordofopinions
    5 years ago

    I see your point. You fear getting rejected or dumped just when you think the relationship is fine. This is a common fear but these situations happen all the time. It hurts but when it happens you just have steel yourself and move on. Good luck.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    There’s fear and then there’s ridiculousness.
    Your not fearing love, you’re letting the idea that you might mess up or screw something up prevent you from doin anything.
    GET OVER YOURSELF. Look, just because you’re near somebody doesn’t mean you have to have any interactions with them. And if they talk to you, so what?
    You don’t gain a romantic relationship by just passing by someone. Besides, he probably knows fifty other people. So youre fine.

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