I feel guilty for seriously hating this guy that smells.

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Is it normal? There's this guy that I've met in school. I never thought it'd be humanly possible to smell so bad. He weighs like 300lbs, always wear flip flops and has blocks of old cheese for toe nails. He has such poor hygiene its horrible to have to sit in the same class as him for 3hrs. I'm not over exaggerating when I say you can smell him on the other side of the hallway. when I get home, I swear I smell him on me,so I take a shower and wash my clothes asap. He has to have a social disability or he's just really annoying.I'm usually not the kind of person to judge, I try to be nice but holy hell! I oddly find his presence and every being offensive. His breath smells like a dump on a hot day in Texas, his hair looks like it holds enough oil for 10 restaurants to cook with, its probably hazardous to light a match with in 500ft of him.i feel so guilty,I have never felt so disgusted about a person before, and he's never been mean to me,just really annoying cause since I'm nice to him,he tries to talk to me,but I hold my hatred deep inside for him. I have a disorder that makes my stomach extremely sensitive, I have a very strict diet and times to eat and once I vomit I will continuously vomit all day and have to go to the hospital because I have burned holes in my esophagus in the past from my stomach acid, the first time I met him I threw up after the 1st hr of class, now I can't eat before I have that class because his smell will make me throw up. Everyone in class sits on the opposite side of the class and frankly I feel bad for him but I hate him.he even lies about being a vet(to get attention) and my friend that's an actually vet caught him in his lie. the smelly guy is a compulsive liar,but I think he does it to make friends. I've never felt like this before, how do you even deal with something like that? I feel bad for him but I seriously don't like him.

kindly tell him to shower 31
suck it up,continue being nice 2
get to know a bit more of his story,maybe i wont hate him so much 22
other 8
speak to the teacher,see if they can tell him to shower 31
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  • WeirdMe
    9 years ago

    Write a kind letter to him, to take showers and brush his teeth and the tongue untill the white stuff on it disapears. Put the letter in his school bag while he doesnt watch. The letter should have a great colore like red, so he does notice the letter in his bag.

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  • GreyWulfen
    9 years ago

    If he really smells as you describe, that is not just bad hygiene. People who don't wash themselves smell sour or musky, not like a dump. It's probably an illness, and maybe he has a mental disorder as well.

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago

    Its normal to be repulsed by dirty people so you shouldn't feel guilty. Id say tell someone "in charge" that its their job to tell him he is causing some problems with his lack of hygiene. Honestly he sounds mentally ill so I wouldn't think that's his only issue...

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  • dasugaknows
    9 years ago

    It sounds like he may have a mental disorder. The way you described him i dont believe i have met anybody with such bad hygene and i have met some really bad ones. It sounds like he takes the cake. I dont blame you for hating him, i suppose its just not nice to trash talk him to others in your school.

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  • PieGoblin^^
    9 years ago

    I would avoid him like the plague! There is never an excuse to be a fat, smelly, greasy haired blob of dirt. Good god, I wish people like that would just remove themselves from exsistance.

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  • canihelpit
    9 years ago

    Tell the teacher. Lmao I had stinky shoes and someone told the teacher and the teacher told the counselor. But after that, the person and i became friends.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Get some Vicks Vapor Rub and rub a little under your nose. I want to say I saw that on a cop show or a movie when they were conducting an autopsy.

    To be honest I fucking hate dirty, smelly people! If they want people to be nice to them and care care about their feelings they should fucking clean themselves. I know I probably sound mean, but I have a weak stomach too.

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  • RealChick
    9 years ago

    I had something simular happen in high school then one day I left my clothes in the washer for a few days pulled them out and the mildew smell was exactly what he smell liked. I thought back and remembered how poorly he dressed and realized that maybe he smelled bad was because he was too poor for a dryer or even to shower properly. Hygiene does take money, and not everyone has it. And you have to keep in mind that a person with no friends and a shitty home life is probably desperate for someone to talk to. The lies are to make them more interesting, because there isn't a lot of great, if you have to live like that.

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  • Koda
    9 years ago

    Oddly enough, I know more than one morbidly obese, smelly, compulsive liar. Maybe it's a syndrome?

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  • Shrunk
    9 years ago

    Although not this extreme I work with someone that annoys me for similar reasons, and I feel terrible because they are like as old as my grandmother. I just don't breathe through my nose when they talk to me, and keep it brief yet courteous... I wonder if they notice this, but eh. The person seems a little "off" socially as well so I doubt it...

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    well ask him to move out then

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