I feel sad after my second breakup iin?

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I broke up with my girlfriend and so far I can't forget her its hard to let her go. We broke up because it wasn't going the way we planned and I feel heartbroken that it turned out the way it did. I just feel even more sad whenever people ask me about her.

I often sit in the rain even at night in sadness trying to forget about her, my fixation with her I just can't forget.

Inside of me felt like I need to forget about her but how?

How do I try to forget my old memories about her?

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  • SkullsNRoses
    2 years ago

    It’s ok to feel sad after this, but if all you do is sit around in the rain feeling sad you’re not going to move on. Make an effort to talk to your friends more, get back into your hobbies, if it’s safe go somewhere you have never been for a day. Fill your days so you don’t notice her absence, it will feel wrong and first but get easier with time.

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  • Grunewald
    2 years ago

    I am so sorry. You take as much time to recover as you need. You can't hurry the process of making it hurt less. Like when you fracture a bone, you have to make sure it heals well. People and activities may help, after a while. But in the immediate aftermath it's normal to just lie there and cling onto your remaining sanity. Sleep helps.

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  • RoseIsabella
    2 years ago

    You need to get busy doing something interesting that you enjoy. You have to find something that will distract you from the pain of your obsession with your ex-girlfriend.

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  • GaelicPotato
    2 years ago

    So undo it and make it work.

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  • lolman787
    2 years ago

    i feel so sad
    because of thinking about my ex gf
    but she never existed

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