I feel sad if my friend requests are denied :(

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Is this weird? I only request people I know. I never add people I have never met... I am not a person trying to collect a gazillion friends. (I have 93 friends but some are duplicate accounts I think) But when somebody I know denies my request I feel kind of sad, and I wonder if I have done something to that person to make them dislike me. And if that person tries talking to me in real life I feel kind of nervous because I have a feeling they hate me.

I am a VERY quiet person (I get told I'm kind of antisocial) and I come off as weird to people because the little that I say usually ends up being awkward, but I am not mean.

IIN?

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Based on 87 votes (73 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    i feel the same way too. especially if a girl denies my friend request i think im ugly.. I feel bad when a chatroulette person skips my web too =[

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  • thegift
    13 years ago

    I'll be your friend.

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  • VoLoPoK
    13 years ago

    that's sad

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  • jrphotographer
    13 years ago

    Ya my "friend" ignored my facebook friend request so.. :(

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  • alv1592
    13 years ago

    that's normal. you know what i hate? when people post the link to their profile publically and deny every request they get. seriously, if you don't want friend requests, don't post the link to your page! it's common sense!

    and i feel kinda bad when people delete me. i'm just like "aw, why'd you do that?" but it doesn't get me down too much...

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  • ~L~
    13 years ago

    The answer to this problem is simple, CONFRONT THEM AND SAY 'IS THERE ANY PARTICULAR REASON WHY YOU DENIED MY FRIEND REQUEST HUH HUH HUH!' and be sure to look at them like this 0_0. They will be so freaked out that they will add you because they either now fear you, or think you are cool for caring so much. ^_^

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  • Ribbit.
    13 years ago

    Happens to me too. :/

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  • LiamHale
    13 years ago

    It's a freakin' friend request! It's not a big deal. You take it too personally.

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  • hotchickie81
    13 years ago

    Rejection sucks, no matter what.

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  • crazykat
    13 years ago

    Ditto I feel the same story

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  • Complex4
    13 years ago

    I think its normal ....
    I sometimes send friend requests to unknown people n if denied I feel a tint of hurt ..

    n In your case ..its with people you know n obviously its normal to feel awkward talking with them in real if they denied your friend request ..

    lol i m a lot like you ...whtever lil i say comes off as awkward

    its a short world i guess ...

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  • BUGABOO-666-
    13 years ago

    Aw, you sound like me. I think I have even less friends than you, haha. Of course this is normal; I don't think you should go as far as assuming that the person hates you, but if it's one of your friends, then it wouldn't be a bad idea to casually ask him/her why he/she denied your request. If it's just an acquaintance, then you shouldn't let the denied request affect you too much.

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