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I find love cringey as fuck, like...whenever I see two people kiss in public or something I cringe hard as hell inside....
The thing is though I wanna have a girlfriend to do all that shit too but I don't wanna embarrass myself in public lol
Do other people find love cringey? Or am I the only one? Is it normal?
Cringe = self shame. You ought to focus on loving yourself and not being so embarrassed. Then try for a relationship.
Good question though not easy to answer. Consider your interests and your hobbies, what you consume but importantly what you create. You can't love yourself if you only consume things, so focus your energy towards creative and self-improving pursuits.
You can never fool yourself into thinking you're worthy of love if you aren't. That's why you have to improve, and be a person worth being around. That's when the self-shame goes away.
Sounds like your jealous of ppl that have what you want. Why not put yourself out there and find some one to be with?