I fucked up

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Hey guys mammal here, I fucked up. So one of my coworkers started talking to me on facebook and kinda pressured me into giving him my phone number.

I'm thinking ok whatever, well yea obviously he likes me. But hes getting ridiculous! Yesterday he was drunk and sent all kinds of messages going from saying hes a bad guy and sorry he tried to kiss me to saying he needs to cum. Then this morning he was like wow I was drunk sorry about that and 2 hours later sent me I want to pound you. This guy is going to be trouble I think.

I've already told him friends only. Guess I got to have a real talk with him then. Urg.

Err moral of the story dont give out your number to coworkers who are pushy?

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  • SkullsNRoses
    4 years ago

    Tell him on Facebook you’re not interested. Don’t delete the conversations and keep screenshots as evidence. If he continues tell him again you are not interested and will report him if he doesn’t stop. If that doesn’t work report him with evidence.

    You have a right not to be harrassed- he is in the wrong here not you.

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  • --
    4 years ago

    Maybe he is smeagol from lord of the rings.

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    • Mammal-lover
      4 years ago

      Haha maybe! He is balding! And is rather short, I could lean on his shoulders haha

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        4 years ago

        Does he call you "my precious"

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        • Mammal-lover
          4 years ago

          Haha no, that would be bad though. Omg I'm cracking up. That was funny thank you.

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            4 years ago

            :)

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  • JellyBeanBandit
    4 years ago

    He's your coworker? Can't you just tell him you'll show your boss the messages and have him fired if he continues?

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    • Mammal-lover
      4 years ago

      It's a new job, I'm not ruffling any feathers like that yet. If he gets worse and leaves me no choice I will. Havent even had my evalutio yet on if they are keeping me on. I'm sure they will but if I'm ruffling feathers that early on..

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        4 years ago

        Sounds like a real POS to me.

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        • Mammal-lover
          4 years ago

          Hes in a bad place right now and needs help frankly. Or maybe a mix of both but yes hes being shitty right now. I've only known him for 2 weeks for christ sakes

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          • Nikclaire
            4 years ago

            You know what is going on here right. He thinks you're a hobag that will fuck anything because you are trans.

            Hell even when guys hear I am bi or poly they think the same.

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            • Mammal-lover
              4 years ago

              Yup! I know. If anything being trans or in your case bi we can be more picky, you have a wider selection, while I have a pool of guys who'd love to be with me cause I am trans (not ideal but it's a reality of the situation)

              Guys are the freaking worst, what ever happened to asking a girl out on a date and not even broaching sex till it's been awhile. I've never even dated this guy!

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  • raisinbran
    4 years ago

    Congratulations, you avoided bleeding out in a ditch.

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    • Mammal-lover
      4 years ago

      What!?

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  • GaelicPotato
    4 years ago

    No

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    4 years ago

    I'd report him if I were you. Keep the conversation as evidence. They'll fire him and he'll be out of your hair.

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  • bigbudchonga
    4 years ago

    Ye man, lay down what's up kindly but firmly; I would also specify that you want him to stop sending you certain kinds of texts.

    He sounds bad with girls tbh. Does he come across as a nervous person btw? That kind of inconsistency, although I could well be wrong with this, is possibly from someone who's way overthinking shit and thus flipping all the time in-between what they think they should say.

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    • Mammal-lover
      4 years ago

      Actually yes. A little bit, I don't know if its cause hes distracted by work or something else. Shoot I didnt even think about that.

      But yes I will have a real conversation about it with him

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      • bigbudchonga
        4 years ago

        You seem like a genuinely considerate person, Mammal, good on you!

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        • Mammal-lover
          4 years ago

          I try to be. We are all just living our lives as best we can. I dont know his story only what hes told me. Nor do I want him fired, I just want him to stop sexualizing me.

          Right now I'm giving him the cold shoulder before we have a real talk.

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  • Nikclaire
    4 years ago

    Welcome to being a woman. The drunk dial.

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    • KholatKhult
      4 years ago

      “Drunk”

      It’s just an “excuse” to say shit. Then if they get offended or react negatively you can be all “Sorry! I was drunk! I didn’t know what I was doing!”

      I used to pull that all the time when I felt like being an ass

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      • TerriAngel
        4 years ago

        K ho late.
        you're still an ass.

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        • KholatKhult
          4 years ago

          You’re doing a terrible job of trying to seduce me, at this rate you’ll never get me in your bed

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          • TerriAngel
            4 years ago

            Yea, sometimes I really suck.

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      • Mammal-lover
        4 years ago

        It is. Guys are assholes. Why do you feel the need to be an asshole sometimes?

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          4 years ago

          I have never been like that. Not all guys are bad, only the desperate ones with mother issues act like that. Its actually embarrassing.

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          • Mammal-lover
            4 years ago

            That's good. Be the better man as they say!

            It's definitly not ideal!

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        • KholatKhult
          4 years ago

          Oh no not anymore. I used to be a bully pretty bad.
          I was really nasty towards women.

          Have you thought about bringing the issue up to your boss? There’s no way that behavior is acceptable. If you let him get away with it he will only keep pushing

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          • Mammal-lover
            4 years ago

            Good, im glad you've gotten better, why did you bully women?

            I have yes, I'm 2 new for that only been there 2 weeks. I'm not risking 17 an hour plus benifits over an asshole. Not till I'm locked in there.

            In thinking I'll have a serious talk with him and if he gets worse then I will. Till then. I need and want this job to badly to risk

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            • KholatKhult
              4 years ago

              A number of reasons, I wasn’t really interested in girls until later in life so I didn’t feel compelled to impress them or be kind.
              Without sounding like a douche, I was very popular in school so I had a lot of girls who would follow me, but I’m not an intelligent person and I felt inferior, so I’d bully others to make myself look bigger and badder.
              They were easy targets and I was desperate to protect my ego at the time. My older brother was a very dangerous person, so I followed his lead. Not good stuff.

              It still worries me that you feel you can’t tell a superior, he may be preying in that factor as well. I really hope I don’t offend, but is you being transgender easily known to people? He may be targeting you because he knows you may be a more silenced typing.

              Have the talk. Be safe about it. Don’t meet this guy anywhere. Don’t try to embarrass him. An embarrassed man is a violent one, sadly.

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    • Mammal-lover
      4 years ago

      Haha for reals, I guess I just hold coworkers to a higher standard. Thankfully he works maintaince and I work production so even when our paths cross stupid easy to blow him off if that will be required.

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  • howaminotmyself
    4 years ago

    Hmmm...perhaps you can find an ally at work? Someone who may have had a similar experience as you. Unfortunately blocking won't help if you see him in real life. At the very least, ask him to stop in public so others can hear you. But be polite.

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