I got rejected by a guy i like for sexual history?

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I’m 24 and I have quite a high sex drive. I did use my female privilege to live out my fantasies of having group sex during my college years. For years, I have had sex with the same group of 6 guys, sometimes with 1 of them and sometimes all 6 at the same time. It actually started with 1, but the number grew as I got more friends. I recently fessed up to one of the guys who I think is a keeper and wanted to build a future with him in a monogamous relationship. He declined me and called me a neighborhood slut… why though? He also participated in the regular group sex, but what’s the difference between being the receiver or 1 of the 6 givers? Isn’t it the same?

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  • Iambillythemenacetosociety
    2 years ago

    I was able to understand the guy until you mentioned he did the same thing.

    He's no better than you.

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  • bigbudchonger
    2 years ago

    Becaue on a biological level he sees you as a "slut". You can't really reason with these things. Evolution makes certain things repulsive generally, and unfortunately for you that's one of them as far as a lot of men are concerned.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    2 years ago

    Idk but alot of guys only want to have sex with sluts and never date one. This doesnt make sense to me personally because sex is so important if a girl is a slut thats usually a good thing to me. If you hook up with a virgin shes liable to say no everytime you want to do something new. Sluts are usually down to do stuff.

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  • kikilizzo
    2 years ago

    I would say that some people wouldn't want somebody with such a history or be compatible with someone who has a very high sex drive, but if he's done the same thing then it's just hypocritical of him to reject you for that. Men do tend to have this idea though that they can sleep around with tons of women and it's perfectly fine and even cool, but if a woman does the same she's a slut and should be shamed for it. It is not unusual and you're better off without him.

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  • Lusty-Argonian
    2 years ago

    Because a guy has to work for sex and a woman doesn't. Even an ugly woman can get laid easily if she wants to. That's why the double standard. Here's the thing most men don't want the town bicycle. Especially traditional men they will never desire you because well you slept around. 1 or 2 ok but more than that and yea they loose interest real quick

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    • Iambillythemenacetosociety
      2 years ago

      Work for it? There are plenty of men that are able to get laid just as easily as women.

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      • Lusty-Argonian
        2 years ago

        Plenty but not all. Aby woman can go to a bar and vet laid easily of she desired but the same os not true for men

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  • harkosv
    2 years ago

    I mean, I've been rejected more times than I can count for not being over 6 feet tall. I don't see this as being any different. People are entitled to their preferences

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  • Rocknrolla81
    2 years ago

    The past is the past. Either he accepts yours or he’s not worth it.

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  • Tommythecaty
    2 years ago

    Op is a guy.

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    • Iambillythemenacetosociety
      2 years ago

      Hey... HEY! Don't misgender the OP! Wtf is wrong with you?

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      • Tommythecaty
        2 years ago

        What is wrong with me.

        Now there’s a very long piece of paper.

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        • Iambillythemenacetosociety
          2 years ago

          Yeah, I can tell.

          Who the hell misgenders someone? Like, are you kidding me!?

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          • Tommythecaty
            2 years ago

            People with no concern for identity politics.

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  • litelander8
    2 years ago

    Sadly, men and women are held to different standards in society. It’s just facts and I doubt it will ever change. You could fuck 15 guys and be the town whore. But a dude could fuck 30 chicks and be considered a total catch.

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  • YE
    2 years ago

    If you truly would like to keep him in as much as he seems insecure, in the sense of losing you to any one of the other guys in your sex group, that's when you know it's time to make a sacrifice and ditch that guy, or guys, who fuck you better than him. A better sex life for a woman can more always than not be guaranteed if she's more open to her desired man about her sexual needs... wait, why are both of you in that sexual relationship to begin with?

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