I had a giy that i helped disrespect me at thr dinner table

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I got a job in the oilfields of the USA. A new guy showed up with absolutely no money. He drove to work a couple of days and then told me he was out of gas so I gave him a ride to work for a couple of weeks.again, because he had no money, I was cooking for us both.

I don't mind sticking my neck out for ppl, but every time I do, I get my neck chopped off. After he found out that he could get an advance on his paycheck, he has become very arrogant and belligerent. We were watching the Superbowl together and I offered him some vodka, and he, very arrogantly said, "DONT PUSH ANYTHING ON ME THAT I DONT WANT!!" in a very loud voice. I picked up a steak knife and told him that he needs to leave before i lose my temper. He shot up out of his seat and said "ill see you in the morning". (Obviously because he needed a ride).

Anyway, yet again in my life, I tried to help someone and got screwed. Have you ever been in this situation? Have you ever helped someone and gotten screwed over by them?

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[Old Memory]

6 years ago

Cool story bro.

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RoseIsabella

6 years ago

Ugh, yeah... um don't give him anymore damn rides. Leave him be, he's not your responsibility. You're not his mommy.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  I know. I told him the next morning that he needed to find someone else to ride with, and left. Screw me once, shame on you; screw me twice; shame on me. I've got it at this point. Thanks, hun.
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    6 years ago
    
    You're very welcome. May God bless you abundantly. ☺
    
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TheShyGirlFromWork

6 years ago

HOW is that "disrespectful"? It sounds like you may have been an overly sensitive snowflake, and responded hysterically with the steak knife. That being said... here's my 2 cents.

I understand that as he is your guest, not offering him vodka might be considered disrespectful... BUT, why not just ask him WHAT he wants to drink, and let him tell you WHAT he wants (ya' know, instead of assuming he's an alcoholic beverage drinker). He might have been happy with a soda, or water.

WHY the Fuck would you just offer him vodka? I can see how he felt as if you were pushing the vodka drink on him - and I hope you see it too. Maybe next time you won't disrespect your guest by pushing/ offering one specific drink, but just simply ask the questions 1). Do you want something to drink?,... and/or 2). What do you want to drink?,... and then fix for them whatever drink they specify.

He was NOT disrespectful to you. YOU were disrespectful to him.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  I offered him vodka because its the only thing I had. Think about it. It would be rude to not offer it. Should I have gone to the store to buy 15 different types of alcohol that I don't drink? Or offer him what I had?
  
  Here's the deal: if i were to invite myself to your home after we had only known each other a little over a week, and asked you if you were planning on cooking something for the game, and got downright threatening with you when you offered me a drink I don't like, how would you respond?
  Would you not get very angry? Would you not get very offended, at least, with such disrespect? No, of course you wouldnt.
  I've seen your posts on here before and you often retort to peoples comments in a very negative and inciteful way. Get a life and quit antagonizing people online. Id bet in the real world you are just a quiet, weak person with no confidence who feels a need to create the persona of an opinionated and assertive person online. Again, get a life.
  
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  - TheShyGirlFromWork
    
    6 years ago
    
    WOW... I already said it would've been rude not to offer (re-read my comment). AND, if the ONLY thing you had to drink was vodka, then yeah, I think ANYONE would be pissed-off that a drunk invited them over to his house to have a "game party" without the common courtesy of going grocery shopping first. NO... you don't have to buy "15 different types of alcohol" that you don't drink - BUT, you could've at least stopped at the store along the way and ASK him what he wanted (ya' know, before you went to your house with the empty refrigerator).
    
    Seriously... what kind of asshole do you have to be to invite someone over to your house to "cook" for the game (and get drunk with vodka), without the common courtesy of offering to buy HIS choice of beverage? PLUS, do you not have a kitchen sink from which you could've at least poured a glass of water?
    
    I would not have exploded with anger, but I would have been offended that you just assumed that I was a alcoholic like you (kinda obvious, since you only had vodka). SO Disrespectful for a host to invite someone over to his house, and not be courteous to his guest.
    
    NO... sorry, but you caused this situation on your own - you brought this on yourself - and have no one to blame but yourself. PLEASE, learn that other people are different than you... and IF you want respect from them, THEN you'll first have to give them respect. Grow up, learn from your mistake... and stop complaining like a snowflake who needs his safe-space.
    
    BTW... if you actually read most of my comments, then you would know that I give helpful advice (mostly about sexual relationships). I'm only negative and inciteful to the true asshats of the internet. So congrats on being an asshat.
    
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    - Dustyair
      
      6 years ago
      
      Oh shut up Fag, all the guy had to do was say no I don't want any vodka.
      
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      - Anonymous Post Author
        
        6 years ago
        
        That's the point I've been trying to make to this idiot.
        
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    - [Old Memory]
      
      5 years ago
      
      I'm a little late on this one, but shygirl, you have a lot of problems to go off like this. The op was in the right and anyone with the slightest bit of common sense can see it.
      
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      6 years ago
      
      Can you even Fucking read? He wasn't Fucking invited. Stop embarrassing yourself and re-read what I wrote.
      
      Call me an alcoholic when i might drink vodka 3 or 4 times a year, on occasions like new years or the Superbowll, or the 4th of July. You are a skanky whore year round.
      
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Iszzy123

6 years ago

Some people are ungrateful

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  MOST people are ungrateful.
  
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S12207

6 years ago

Was the steak knife really necessary?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  If you would have seen the anger in his face, you would understand. The guy is an idiot. Although I have only known him a short time, I can tell he is very (co) dependent.
  
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