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I hate babies. I hate the way they smell, the way they poop themselves, the way they cry, the way they are. I just hate babies. I like toddlers and up even though they can be annoying sometimes, but babies are just a constant annoyance. I want to have kids someday but I don't know if I could handle having an infant child. I wish I could just skip that stage. Is this normal?
It's normal. Ignore the "you were a baby once too" comment, because it's stupid, so you have to love babies just because you were one? But nature is wise, probably when you have your own babies you'll be a different person and like them because when it's yours it's completely different. But that's only if you're normal person
This. I've never understood the logic of "but you were once a baby/kid!!" Duh? Irrelevant? Babies and kids ARE annoying. And I say this as someone who likes the little fuckers, but doesn't want my own.
So many parents I talk to dislike kids in general. But their own kids, completely different story.
It's everyone's individual decision to love or hate babies. Even though it's so true that all of us were once babies who cried and shit into diapers, it doesn't automatically mean that every person has to love babies. It's still everyone's personal choice. I like babies, but I don't want to have one myself because I love staying single. That's my choice
I don't hate babies(I dislike babies) but I get what you're saying. Though in my case I've decided not to have kids. I dont want to piss away money raising one and I don't the time or patience to give them.
I don’t want children either, and the process of making a partial clone of yourself and not knowing how it will turn out bothers me. Plus, I have no desire to pass my family’s bad gene (poor mental health, migraines, bad vision) to another generation.
Me neither. My family has a history of diabetes, asthma, breast cancer, skin cancer, lactose intolerance, and a few other dumb things I wouldn't want to pass. I knew couples who wanted kids and they had a host of genetic issues but they still wanted to pass their genes on. They were all "we'll just hope they come out okay" and the kids never do come out okay. I'm not looking down on them, I'm just not understanding it. Kids don't ask to be created, so why knowingly pass on their skin conditions, heart conditions, deafness, and all that other stuff?
I had to sit in a different car just because of a baby. I hate the shit smell
Gee whiz. YOU were a baby once. There are those who want babies and kids and others that don't. You are in the latter.
I was an only child. My father from what I picked up had a rotten childhood. His father ignored him for the most part and he ignored me. My mother was completely different. She came from a large loving family and I am sure wanted more kids. Those two should never got married. They were way different in a lot of ways.
The person will be a corpse one day too. Doesn't mean you have to like them.
Very true. My first wife had a morbid fear of funerals. She would not could not go into the room where there was a casket. When she passed away from COPD we had her cremated. I think she had a phobia of being buried alive. She need not have worried because when the mortician is done with you if you were alive you'll be dead once he is done. :)
Look at the world.
If you're not filthy rich.
You must hate your unborn kids to have them.
This world is going to shit.
If you're not rich, you'll be a slave.
That's reality.
I wish I was wrong.
I don't hate babies.
I pity them.
I sures hell won't contribute to the 1%r's work force.
im childfree aka dont want kids, dont have them and dont like them either. i plan on getting tubes removed as soon as i have enough money saved up. omfg. hate humans, but especially breeders and their crotch grimlin spawn.
"but you were a baby once" yes bitch and? didnt like myself or other kids then either. i was an annoying little shit just like the rest of em'. next.
they're cute to look at when they just sit there quietly. but then they move, and breath, and babble etc. and the revulsion sits in.
i love nonhuman animals, like kittens n puppies n bunnies. those are cute all the time, their meows,barks, cries, etc are adorable af. i will only ever have furbabies over here. no human demon spawns. fucking yuck.
i hate hate hate how obsessed this world is with procreating (as if the planet isnt already overpopulated enough as it is) and pressuring and pushing this image that women should have babies or they arent fullfilled blah blah blah
and this applies to children of ANY age, not just disgusitng shitting diaper age. i dont like kids, i dont like teenagers. none of em. ugh
i literally have no maternal instincts when it comes to human babies, but put a cute little cat or other furbaby infront of me and i start squealing and am filled withs o much love inside!
Hate is a bit too strong... I don't like babies. Like you said, they are annoying, can't really do anything and it takes several years before they grow up to be fun children that do silly stuff and can actually understand you.
Comes as a shock to some of my friends that I don't like babies. But how can I like this loud, crying, smelly thing that pukes and shits constantly.
I do want to have kids with my girlfriend, it's just that I won't enjoy the baby period even a tiny bit.
Please do not get pregnant! PLEASE DON'T! Any baby you give birth to is to be pitied and (hopefully) rescued.