I hate it when straight men ask "is it gay?" when it's obviously not

"Is it gay?/ Am i gay?/ does this make me gay?" shut the fuck up. The only thing that will make you gay to me at least is wanting a man's dick up your ass, or getting turned on by men (but what if i found a trans woman or a trap attractive?) because you fell for their female presenting appearance you idiot.

If you can can look at a dick on a biological man straight in the eye and not get a boner, you're straight. P E R I O D.

if you like to wear pink, own it. If you like to wear heels, own it. If you kiss your friends on the cheek as a goodbye, own it. If you tell your friend you love them (as a friend), OWN IT. Unless any of these actions will escalate into intercourse with another man, you are not gay, i repeat, YOU ARE NOT GAY.

And so what if people perceived you as gay? You know deep down you aren't, is it really such an injury to your heterosexual pride? Are you that insecure in your sexuality? Is it such an offence to your ego to be perceived as gay although you know you aren't? Get over yourself.

And if a gay man happens to fall for you, it's because gay men are typically into masculine looking men, that doesn't mean you look gay. Gay men are typically into masculine looking men just like straight women, shocker, right?

Do your thing and stop tip toeing trying to avoid being called gay, you know you're not gay, so why seek others' approval of your sexuality?

Sincerely, a gay man.