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I honestly hate my mom so much. She always yells at me about everything. And after she got divorced with my dad she put me through hell. I even thought about killing myself because of her. She only cares about herself and no one else it's no annoying. I just hate her and I don't think that's going to change anytime soon.
You should be glad you're not having a parent who beats you or molests you. What about those who've lost a parent. All you're mentioning is getting yelled at, lots of parents yell, my mom's yelled at me plenty.
You should read the post on this site where the op wants to hug her mother but he/she can't coz she died
my mother was addicted to secondhand smoke and would go fucking berserk. Like some heroin addict . she would beat me and i have scars. she then got smart and would only beat my head where hair was so no one could see bruises or cuts , one day a cut opened up at school in my head and i bleed all over like a stuck pig. i was so embarrassed. i had to get stitches and make up a story to keep her out of prison. now what were you bitching about again? your mother yells at you? that must be fucking awful.
your mother must be under in a lot of stress. She’s now single and has to bring you up on her own and she must be exhausted from working. My mom is like that too. Just don’t add fuel to the fire. Be a good kid so that she won’t end up taking her frustrations out on you. If she yells at you, just keep quiet and listen and if she doesnt calm down yet, tell her to calm down in a calm tone, and say you’re sorry if you did something or if you forgot to do something that she told you to do. idk your whole story so I’m only telling how I deal with these kinds of things just in case you can relate to it.
Let me guess. You’re female, between 14 and 18 or so, and she has primary custody of you (and maybe one other sibling, but no more than two - but in all cases you’re the oldest).
People keep telling you to be submissive, but fuck it. I will always hate my dad for physically and verbally abusing me and I will never forgive him. I left home a long time ago and I can't be happier. I don't miss my horrible family one bit. I have been living alone since I was 16 (that was 4 years ago) and my depression or suicide thoughs are gone, I still try to recover from bipolarity and I am finally able to focus on my education, currently my university degree, after graduating college with 96% (considered an outstanding result). While living with my family, my life was a disaster, poor grades, no direction, no happiness and no hope for the future. Dad told me I'll never be successful because I'm "meant to be stupid". After leaving his house, I became one of the top students in Mathematics in my area and everyone has been congratulating and admiring me for my progress ever since. Staying submissive was damaging my health, ruining my life and almost killing me (yes, he also intended this). The moment I stood up for myself I started becoming successful. You decide what to do, but one thing is for sure, as long as you're suffering from this abusive behaviour, you won't make any progress and there will be no changes. Not sure about the people who said that they miss their dead parents or whatever, but here's another certainty, I will give zero fucks if my dad dies. Last time I talked to him he threathened me again, in public, making me reminisce about the terrible childhood I had living with him and about the embarassment of being abused even in public, with no help from anyone around. I'd actually happily contribute to throwing him in jail to protect the society from such a danger, but chances are that he's already fucking himself up, since he is suffering from multiple diseases and does not accept any advice or help from anyone. Just avoid your mother as much as possible. The more distance you get from her, the better your life will be. Don't look back, you won't regret it.