I hate our dog but he cost us a fortune
A little while ago we adopted a puppy from our local SPCA, at first everything seemed ok, his training was progressing and his health was improving (when we adopted him he was nearly bald and covered in scabs due to an allergic reaction and was severely underweight).
I've had dogs before and have always had a knack for training dogs but this particular dog is impossible now that he's well. He makes my young kids nervous,they don't like him now that he's gotten comfortable, he's destroying my older kids clothes (while the kids are wearing them, btw) and when he barks (which is any time he's alone) he sounds like he's being murdered, yipping and yelping and carrying on. He's sneaky and misbehaves when I'm not watching, climbs over the baby gate to get into the living room and pee, grabs at the kids clothes with his teeth, puts his paws up on the counters or kitchen table. He's also decided he would prefer to pee in my kitchen than go into the yard, seriously, he fights against going outside and will willfully refuse to pee outside and then immediately pee in the house. I feel like I'm losing my mind and for the first time in my life I can understand why some people abandong dogs. I have tried to post ads to rehome him but the SPCA has taken over the internet classifieds in my area and non-shelter rehoming ads are not permitted and taking him back to the SPCA will require us to pay a fee after we already paid 250$ for the dog and another 200$ for all his stuff (kennel, toys, food, shampoo etc) and I've put so much time into working with him, treating his skin and getting him to a healthy weight and I know they won't take proper care of him. I feel trapped because abandoning animals is not something I condone but, I don't know what I'm going to do. He's only 6 months old!