I hate penises!

Penises are very ugly.

Penises are just about the ugliest things ever... but you shouldn't be afraid of them. You should probably look into therapy.

i agree with you i have a massive fear of penises. its much worse than your fear though cos im a guy so i see it everyday, going to the toilet is a daily nightmare, so sometimes i wet myself just to avoid looking at it and i dont take them off for hours cos i know ill have to see my penis. you should feel lucky youve only got an icky vagina

Beware of the evil penis

Not normal, but lets face it penises are pretty damn ugly.

Im a guy, I like porn, (though I do try to stop watching it with mixed success), and when I see a girl giving blow jobs I always just think "how the hell can u do that?"

If you dont like either sexes genetals then you dont like sex and are an a-sexual just like me. A-sexuals are people who simply dont enjoy sex with other people its perfectly normal dont worry about it and find a person you can be with that is the same or doesnt mind a sexless relationship.

don't blame you-horrible looking things. I have to accept my boyfriend's despite thinking he'd be peferct if only he chopped it off

listen to me, if a man really TRULY loves you.. he's going to be with you for company, and love. not for sex. he's going to understand your fear and accept it. not cheat or dump you. don't worry about it, penises gross me out too. just take life as it comes, and try to stay happy :] xox, awesomechick

I hate them too! Maybe your an asexual! Just because society tells you to have sex and you don't want to doesn't make you a freak! I don't see why you care if its normal, just be who you are and don't force yourself to live by "civilizations" standards!

What about vibrators? Can u/have u used them?

I feel so sorry that you are so traumatised by them, its really horrible cause its preventing you from enjoying that aspect of your life.

Get a dildo and practice your reaction to a real penis, I was afraid too. When I first saw my boyfriends penis, I screamed, but I got over it

1. masturbating is the best way to become more in touch with your own sexuality.

2. you need to get to the bottom of why penises are so distressing to you. maybe you were molested as a child? maybe you associate penises with something (power, being tied down by marriage, having babies, etc) that freaks you out? You need to do some soul searching/see a counselor and get to the bottom of what's going on. I am very confident that you can and that you will eventually not be so disturbed by penises. Hang in there girl!

Also...if you never do end up being ok about penises...NOTHING wrong with a penis free life, I'm sure a girl out there could make you happy!

Im a girl i love pussy, try it, its hot ;)

*is masturbating* lolwut?

I'm terrified of them too!!!
Their so fucking nasty>_<

Have you tried dildos?

I think I read about this once. It's called Ithyphallophobia and maybe it's rare but you're not alone.

I have had a fase like this, but it turned out that it's a lot less scary when you have the guy wash it first. Then you don't have to feel dirty or anything. It'll help you get over. And it is very normal to ask a guy to wash before you touch.

Good luck!

"Phallophobia" is the name given to the fear of a penis particularly an erect penis. This phobia can develop in both males and females. The fear may have developed during childhood if the person was raped, if they were raised in an environment that taught that sex is somehow wrong and even sexual thoughts are a form of sin. A person may be embarrassed about an erection and want to get away from it. When early anxiety attaches to a person’s unconscious a phobia can develop. A person with this phobia may avoid social situations which can interfere with healthy relationships. The phobia may continue long after the person is away from the original cause.

The Phallophobia can trigger when the person sees, thinks about or has an erect penis. The anxiety symptoms triggered can include nausea, vomiting, dizziness, shaking, shortness of breath, heart palpitations and panic attacks. Sometimes the person has symptoms severe enough to need medical treatment. The person will maintain phobic responses even if they are aware that the fear is basically unrealistic unless they are able to make a commitment to change.

It should be known that Phalloophobia is an anxiety disorder that can respond to a variety of treatments depending on what will seem to meet the patient’s needs. This phobia can be treated in a clinic which deals with anxiety disorders, by psychotherapy, cognitive behavioral therapy and hypnotherapy. There are even short term online programs for treatment of Phallophobia. During treatment, a person will learn to understand the fear, and develop coping methods to deal with and perhaps eradicate the anxiety related to the fear of an erect penis.

I wouldnt say i was scared of them. They aree kindaa uglyy thoo. Thiss might bee your prob too?

Find a boyfriend, and talk to him about it. Then just sort of, do it a little bit at a time, step by step sort of... I hope this helps.

You need to find out why you are scared of penises, as it may be due to an incedent you went through. I wouldn't say I'm scared of them but they disgust me, I can't look at one or stroke one without feeling slightly sick or weird.

Take one step at a time

Ask to be abducted by aliens. They put things in your bum but their not penis'. So you get the pleasure, without the fear. Yumm

I wonder if you somehow had a son, would you hate his penis? Pretty strong words for something that is natural and healthy. You have some serious issues. IT's not the penis, it's you.

Seeing a penis in the flesh....hehe, that made me chuckle

you hate penises. and now, you're telling us this in the hope that ONE of us will know how to slip through your well established neurotic defenses and convince you to take that first step and see a therapist. But the first step isn't the hardest. The hardest step is THE SECOND STEP.

But you have to take the first step to get there. Me, I don't think you were molested. At least not physically. I think this is an attitude thing that PROBABLY came from your mother. Let me ask you something. Do you have a phobia against spiders?

I was afraid of having sex too until I masturbated. You could try doing that.

IMSA PENIS IMA GONNA GETCHA!!!

It's normal if women don't like penises, but phobia is not normal though. There's plenty of straight women that don't like penises so no need to worry, same with straight men and vaginas (speaking for myself). But having a phobia towards it may not be so normal and there might need to be some help for it. Since there's a difference between not liking penises and having "phallophobia" in general.

The problem is the penis , not the people !
This was written 8 years ago and sorry to let us know the world has not changed yet, men still have a cucumber inbetween their legs.
I hate them ,
Because seriously between a vagina and something HANGING , the choice is easy.
Because they got just ONE HOLE to pee and the sperm exit. While urethra and vagina allow two exits for two different things.
Because not only they got to stand something hanging from their birth but also without a doubt it is ugly.
Because there are rapes owing to them and women can get pregnants from a rape.
Because most men did not think once in their life , is it ugly or not , and imagine it as a king.
Because it does not make men SMART people.
Because many men cannot even put on condoms.
Because men surely peed on their faces as babies , and it did not wait puberty to erect. Again why they never reflect on the prettiness .
Because women who would not get pregnant should simply not open their legs , but instead they take pills which is not good for their health and most women do not push for condoms and if they are lucky enough to know their period time , they will not end with an unwanted baby with years of pills helping but with sexual disease.

FYI , I was not raped , I have a boyfriend who know things perfectly , I do not hate men but the world would be more perfect without penises which could have stayed as hidden and cute as clitoris , balls could have stayed inside the body as for cocks roosters , there should not be rapes , nor prostitutions , men should think twice when they see it as beautiful even if we do not have all the same opinions , clearly it is ugly.

I know your struggle , the world is not perfect , this is why not need to support a creator.

You are probably, very most likely, asexual. I am too. I am attracted to men in a romantic way, but I can't ever be sexually attracted to men. I don't have feelings for women, and I also think vaginas are just as disgusting as a penis is. I like to kiss and cuddle, things above the waist. I don't want anything genitals related, which is common for the orientation of asexuality. Mine is called heteroromantic asexuality, and I think you are just as I am. For more info about asexuality, here's a good link where you can read all about it: www.asexuality.org

Me toooooooooo! they both creep me out!

I'm terrified of them!

And, poster, obviously something traumatic occurred in that one sexual experience you had. Possibly try seeking therapy, or an outlet of some sort...

You may just have pent up emotions, or something deeper, that you haven't truly overcome.

You might just look into trying to pinpoint the cause... And working through it, once you have.

I used to be afraid of the penis too... I was like "stick it in but don't let me see it" lol. But, I mean - porno penises are intimidating and very above average! You just need to take it one encounter at a time - express how you feel. If the guy is into you he will take it slow as well. And they come in all different shapes and sizes - I finally got COMPLETELY over my fear of penises when I got to meet the perfect one haha. It's like meant for me. Anyway, you'll get over it.

Mabey your a lesbian? Or just you havent found the right penis yet.

Im not going to lie, when I was like 15 ( im 20 now) I used to think they looked sooo gross. I couldnt believe people would put them in their mouths or anything ... and I would worry that I would have to become a lesbian because I wouldnt want penis. lol.

But now that I have had some time a lone with a penis lol.. they are not that bad. I LOVE THEM! lol..

Seriosly - why have you not approached your doctor about this yet?!