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In my job I really hate strangers calling me by name just because it's on my shirt. I find it somewhat presumptuous and familiar. I don't like some stranger using my first name. Some guys say it creepily too. Is it normal? I'd rather them just say
" miss" or not address me at all.
Yeah I sort of know what you mean. I feel like someone earns my name through introduction, not observation. Although it's unavoidable if the company makes you wear it and somebody wants to use it. Definitely know what you mean though. I have to wear one in my job and the times where customers have used it have always come across as awkward and not natural.
If I call a business on the phone and the person answers, (example), "This is Sara, how my I help you? " I'll start by saying, "Hi Sara. I have a question. ........." I guess in a world where everyone is a "number", calling a person by their name is more personable. Especially if a sales person helps me in a store. If I call him/her by their name, I would think that you appreciate their help even more when you say, "Thanks Ken for your help. " By using their name, it seems more heart felt.
If this bothers you it sounds as if you shouldn't be working in customer service. I never have but I often use someone's name from their name tag and I've never had a negative reaction. Similarly if I'm calling a company I ask the name of the person I'm speaking with and then use it.
I don't see the problem here
Ok well 'Ellenna' in customer service it's not like you can get rude with the customer or tell them not to call you that. Seriously do you expect a negative reaction from people who are paid to deal with other humans and withhold the attitude? Of COURSE you wouldn't have a negative experience.
I just don't like strangers calling me my name, especially men who try to get all cutesy. I'm not in customer service, I'm a receptionist.
I can understand that, but if it bothers you so much maybe you're in the wrong job?
I think I have issues with names. It's complicated.On this I'm decidedly not normal:D
I can sympathize. I don't like it when clerks call be by the name from my credit card. (It's only happened once or twice, but it's creepy.)
Deal with it or get a different job that doesn't require a collar... I mean name tag.
Good girl.
I sometimes address people by their name tag. It's not to hit on them. I feel like using their name, which is out there in the public domain, validates them as a "person", rather than a tool or a computer, or a nobody.
I used to work in retail. I hated it when customers addressed me by name only because they could somehow comprehend the sequence of letters displayed on my nametag and assemble it into a speech pattern that I recognize as my spoken name. Even as a guy, this annoyed me, especially when they would do it several times within a single conversation.
Deal with it, it ain't the customers fault you can't get a real fucking job.
If they are particularly wierd and you think you can pull it off, congratulate them on their ability to read, or something sarcastic like that. (only if you can be funny enough as to not sound too rude...)
Also, you could try wearing a brooch or something that will hide part of your name.
If nothing works, the most important thing to keep in mind is jerks will be jerks whether or not they know your name. If they are stupid or disrespectful, they'll find a way to show it even without saying your name.
Working with costumers can be exhausting, but look at it as an opportunity to learn more about people's behavior, you'll get the hang of it. :)