I have a crush on a online friend that i have...

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Ok, I am a female who likes to play videogames. It wasn't really a part of my everyday routine until one day when i was in a game lobby online and i met this guy. we were talking as people usually do on xbox live and i enjoyed his conversation so much that i added him as a friend. Since then everyday we have a special time that we come online and play together, talking and just enjoying each other. I find myself very attracted to him though i have never seen him. He is 20 years older than me and i can tell he is interested but probably hesistant because im much younger than he is. However
I'm not so concerned about the age, it's more so the fact that i have an ever expanding crush on my online friend. IS THIS NORMAL?

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  • BirdyMojo
    14 years ago

    I would forget that fantasy, my friend. Because, usually someone with that age difference just likes to talk to you for company, not because he wants to go out with you. He's 20 years older than you, and that is something to be worried about. You don't know, he could be some pervert.

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  • chickenfoot
    14 years ago

    Yeah, I suppose it's normal. I'm a guy and I was in a similar situation to you only I made myself stop playing with her because I knew it probably wasn't healthy to be so hung up on a girl I had never even met.

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  • ARabidFox
    7 years ago

    I'm in the same situation with a girl i play halo with. we're the same age, but I'm in south dakota. and she's in alaska. fml.

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  • Caryopteris
    11 years ago

    Sure it's normal to have feelings and attach them to a nice, safe on-line friend. I suggest you keep it that way since you could get him in trouble if he is tempted to mess around with you when you are under age. Of course the age doesn't matter to you - you are an inexperienced young female who is excited by the attention. It's all normal and if you're careful, you'll live through this age. Enjoy it without messing up.

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  • DES
    13 years ago

    You got to know him not just for looks meet up

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  • lil_crazy
    14 years ago

    I'd say it's normal if you spend that much time with him, even online.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Its fantasy so normal I guess - but as a fantasy about someone you barely know at all, you should act accordingly.

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  • Hippeh
    14 years ago

    If you spend any lengthened period of time with someone, or on an active basis you'll develop a liking towards them, allbeit sexual or just a friendship.

    It's nothing to worry about, just don't be too forward, you might lose a good friend.

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