I have a high heel fetish, is it normal?

I think having a high heel fetish is common. There is a reason that exotic dancers and supermodels wear the highest heels they possibly can. The only thing that surprised me here is that many of the comments mention liking really high heels or flats. I have a high heel fetish, but also really like flats, and I thought I was alone in that.

I could watch a girl walk around in flats or high heels with a 4" or higher heel all day. For me, I do not have a foot fetish to go along with my heel fetish. The heels are what makes the woman's feet look nice, but I don't like seeing women's feet without shoes on them. For this reason I really only like close-toed heels. If I can see the toes, I am reminded of the feet inside the shoes, and they are not as attractive. Weird, huh?

A great place to see women in high heels is every night on Jay Leno. The current trend is 5 or 6 inch heels with a platform. If you want heels like that for your gf, DSW sells the Zigi Soho Staple Pump that are awesome! They are similar to Steven Madden's Caryssa pump.

Here are some examples of how strong this fetish is for me. I was with my gf shoe shopping one time early on in our relationship when she pulled a really nice pair of flats off the rack and showed them to me without putting them on or anything, and I felt myself get aroused immediately. I made sure she bought them, and she wore them for the rest of the night, including after we got home and through all of our remaining activities that evening, until we finally went to bed. It was great!

Another time I saw a woman in the checkout line of a store wearing a very unique pair of 5" heels, and I followed her out of the store just to watch her walk in them. As we got into the parking lot I had to know more about the shoes, so I caught up with her, apologized for how strange my question was going to sound, and then asked where she had gotten her shoes. I said that I thought my gf would love a pair just like them (which was true, because my gf knows I like heels). She seemed surprised and flattered that I had noticed, and told me that she'd gotten them on sale at Macy's. I found them online that night, called the store to see if they could hold a pair of the right size for me, and the next day my gf was a proud owner of that exact pair of heels! Now, we're not up to 500 pairs of shoes like the girl who commented above (who I'd like to meet by the way, just so I could see her try them all on!), but maybe 50 pairs. If you treat your gf right when she wears your favorite shoes for you (wherever she may wear them), then she will be happy to do so again and again.

So, bottom line, you're not alone, and this is something that you can have a lot of fun with! Good luck!

My boyfriend is exactly the same, sometimes worry that I'm not needed in the shoes though! I'm sure he must buy me a pair a month, must have 500 pairs in the attic. He sometimes asks me to sleep in them too and don't think we've ever had sex barefoot, but at least he doesn't wear them himself, that is, I've never seen any size 11 stillettos lying around lol!

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I agree with your comments about the distinction between a high heel fetish and a foot fetish. Unfortunately, a lot of people don't understand this and will think that a guy with a heel fetish is a foot fetishist. Too bad, because a lot of heel fetishists like myself, and apparently yourself, don't like feet, or even dislike them.

I think that we would agree that women should wear closed toe shoes and that they should keep their foot in their shoes. It's the candid nature of just watching a woman walk in very high stiletto heels which I appreciate. It's not just the shoe or the foot; it's when they BOTH come together in harmony.

On top of closed toe pumps, I also like it when the shoes are tight on the woman's foot, so that you can appreciate her arch or the side of her foot. It is also nice if her instep curves in towards the vamp. Or if she walks in the shoe a bit unusually, perhaps too slow or too fast, or even appears to have some difficulty walking in the shoe. I really like to take in the details as you see.

Closed at the toe, closed at the back with a low cut around the sides and vamp can make for a good combination with a tall, thin heel. Sometimes, a pointed toe can be better than a rounded toe at the vamp as well. I don't even mind taking the color and material of the shoe into consideration though that is not usually as important as the style of the shoe and the heel itself.

Unlike you, I am no so much into flats and platforms, but I think very high stiletto heels on pumps are generally good.

I have the exact same thing as you man. I see a woman and i instantly look down at her shoes. I like wearing High heels and flats it really turns me on. Call me whatever but i really enjoy it. I just wish i had a girlfriend to share it with. Or someone for that matter.

I can relate to this a lot, right down to the type of shoe I like. I have also heard that it's the most common type of fetish. If I'm looking at a picture, I'm not interested if the woman isn't wearing nice shoes.

I think it's normal. I love the sight of high heels. I love my wife wearing them when we have sex.

i no man i agree all the way i cnat resist high heels for the life of me

This high heel fetish I think goes along with the foot fetish but this is not unusual. It is normal. I personally like the platform thigh highs and the spiked heels, especially if the woman is wearing beautiful hosiery. I think they are very sexy :)

lots of guys find certain high heels really attractive. don't worry about it.

I have had a high-heel fetish for over 50 years. For years stilettoes were my favourite. Now stilettoes with a platform are my favourite. The higher the better. There is something about the look of a very high stilettoe heel that does it for me. I love watching girls who enjoy the challenge of controlling and walking in sky-high heels especially if they are having difficulty doing so. So sky-high heels on steep hills, cobble stones or sheet ice are of particular interest. I do not like to see a failure. Falling off heels is not good to see, but if it happens, I am the first to offer help. My wife is a tomboy and will not wear heels of any description, not even for me. My ambition is to be the strong arm of support to a lady who is attempting to walk on heels that are really a little too tall for her to safely manage. That would be a huge turn-on for me. Also the sound that steel tipped stilettoes make on concrete paths sends me wild.

hi there i want you to know that i have the same problem and im on the borderline of calling my self a fag. Also find it really hard to control my self because i want to use my parents credit card to buy myself a sexy pair of high heels. How ever i dont know how to break the news to my parents that i have a shoe fetish and i like wearing heels if you can help me please post a comment that will help me. the only reason im telling all you this is because i dont know you and you wont judge me therefor i can trust all of you.

Wow! Man.. we have the same fetish..! At SEX my "junior" usually don't stand if the girl does not wear high heels..

I don't think it's weird at all. High heel fetishism and foot fetishism are not automatically related.

I suppose they can be. For example, a fetish for a woman's foot could lead to a fetish to women's dress shoes, which in turn could lead to a fetish for high heels. (AND IT'S ALSO QUITE POSSIBLE FOR A PERSON TO HAVE MORE THAN ONE FETISH.)

But at the same time a hatred of feet could also lead to a high heel fetish.

Or, the high heel fetish could be completely indifferent to feet.

Or it could be something else all together like a childhood experience or maybe a teacher who wore heels, etc.

Furthermore, there are a lot of different kind of high heel fetishes. Some guys like pumps (me); others like platforms; others like boots; others like mules and sandals (for sure not me).

You just have to take it on a case by case basis. I hesitate to call it normal, but it's closer to normal than a lot of the other stuff you will find on Isitnormal.com

There is no such thing as a "not-normal" fetish. A fetish is something we develop, often during childhood. It doesn't need to make sense, and as long as it is not coming to the point where you have ONLY an attraction to shoes, and not womenmen, or that you may harm someone elseothers, that it should be a concern.

I have an odd fetish. If you want to know what is is, you can email me at [email protected]. I think it developed in Kindergarten, but is somewhat embarrassing so I don't want to mention it in "public" so to speak.

You can also contact me if you have a question. Best of luck =)

Hi,
As a female who ALWAYS wears high heels, because I am only 5'2" and 99 pounds, and I LOVE to dominate, I would say you are EXTREMELY normal. In fact, I am not sure I know ANY guys who do not have some kind of fetish...and 95% have a fetish connected with feet.

In fact, I enjoy teasing you guys by dangling my stiletto heels and also, digging my stiletto metal heel tips in wood floors and linoleum. I LOVE to leave my heel marks in whatever I am walking on. Girls can spot that pants bulge a mile away and I love to turn on the heels tease as soon as I see it.

If I can say it here, I enjoy getting my boytoys off with my stiletto heels.... and watch them explode by just jabbing that bulge with my heel. I also enjoy leaving heel hickeys on their skin when I like to trample and get my frustrations out.

Guys.... I love you for loving our feet and heels AND flats. AND running shoes.... :)

Spikingly,
Gina

Glad I found you guys I was beginning to think I was alone. I really really enjoy watching women in high heels. The taller the better, strappy heels and open toed shoes are my favorite. For me the more of the foot that's exposed the better. Which sounds strange because I don't have a foot fetish either. Granted I have an appreciation for manicured feet if its not in a heel it doesn't do much for me. When the two come together I am very turned on by them. Now my wife knows I like heels but she doesn't wear them very often. My advice to the rest of you is be honest about your fetish and make sure when you get married you end up with someone who is willing to feed your fetish.

I suffer from an intense heel fetish myself, reading these comments relax me a little because atleast I'm not alone. I'm starting a new relationship with a women i sincerely enjoy, but my heart pounds thinking about trying to have sex with her. The fact that I know I will faill if she doesnt have heels on really bothers me. I have done extensive research and I am pretty sure this is a condition I am forced to live with. Hope she can accept it because it is a part of me =/

Tracey9548 :)

I'm exactly the same. I love it when I girl a sexy woman tottering on shoes that are so high she is struggling to maintain her composure. All that heel noise...mmmmmmmmmmm. I love the cobblestone comment. I was recently in Poland and there were so many girls there in stilettos it was amazing. They wore them everywhere (so much tottering).

Old town is very cobbly as you enter it's square area, and I got a spot right near the start of it, purely to watch the ladies walk. Now, my only difference is a find it quite arousing when they tumble on their spikes, and Jesus did I get a treat that afternoon! In the space of 2 hours, I saw soo much unsteady wobbling, numerous trips, a shoe removal and the best part...3 complete falls (one woman in black 6-7 inch louboutin style pumps worn with a pencil skirt! I was just staring at her feet and *Crash bang*. A few teenage girls were sniggering, but she got up quick, flicked her sexy hair and tottered off. That aroused me so much. Jesus! ;)

yes it is normal infact i have a high heel boot fetish now i dont care what people say bit i get a hard on just by lookin at my teachers high heel boots i find them sexy

iam a 32 married high heel fetish ,my wife also know my weakness,she have 12 pair of sexy high heel ,most of them are chunky wedge type ,actually she is very sexy on them ,prblm is she already 2 inch taller than me,but now we dont care about our height difference,she saying she getting very confident wearing them,i several time she exposing her leg ,it is very sexy i know ,iam proud of my wife's sexy leg and open toe wedge type high heel

It's normal:) I don't have a fetish for stilettos, but allot of them are designed to be sexy. Try making your passion into a hobby and explore it more.

My advise is become a show salesman. But seriously, is it the shoes only or when women wear them? Also, it probibly has something to do with childhood like maybe issues with ur mom? I dunno.

I have just seen a lovely lady, very attractive in a high street store. I noticed her first because of her sheer prettiness and then I saw her shoes, high heel but interestingly not stiletto. they were black patent court style shoes and with a sort of tapered semi round front but very low cut but of her heel was so high and tapered, thicker than a stiletto but gorgeously sexual and she was wearing those cropped trousers which women wear to show of their lovely high heel shoes. Of course I felt it getting hard and very stiff just from looking at her shoes. I think her heels were just over 4 inches tall but beautifully tapered. They did it for me and as she walked past I could hear the sound making me even firmer. I can't help this fetish. As I write this I am still thinking about her high heel shoes and they are doing it for me all over again.

There is no fetish that can be considered 'normal' because what has happened is that sometime in ones early development, the brain has attached an enhanced sexuality to something other than a female herself. This may be a body part, an item of clothing or an activity. The fetish can also attach to other persons or animates which are outside the scope of this thread. By the time the fetishist becomes aware of his fetish it is always too late to do anything about it because the fetish has already 'hard wired' itself into his brain. This explains the obsession that fetishists have concerning the fetish object. I know because I am one. Some fetishes are totally harmless and lovely because they are so very feminine and they enrich ones love of the ladies who wear sexually appealing clothing to please. My fetish is for beautiful high heel shoes of course and I love ladies who wear them. However as we all know not all fetish is a beautiful as the high heel shoe fetish so I guess that I am one of the lucky ones. Let me also say that I don't understand how it is that a guy can have a fetish for shoes and boots where the heels are not high, and by high I mean at least 4 inches, thin and tapered. For me having a fetish for a low heel flat shoe or ankle boot, worse if it's open fronted, is a sickness. I also have a zero interest in platforms because they are so ugly and thick at the fronts and the women who wear them are cheating, cheating on the high heel which is an unforgivable sin, because the heel is lowered by the height of the platform yuk ! I don't mind wedges though but they neither turn me on or off. Anyway, perhaps I should say a bit more about the shoes that I really do enjoy. These are high heel court shoes with the high heel about 4 inches high and tapered with a nice hard tip to give that tap tap sound as the lady walks. I find it so sexual and so highly stimulating to be near lady in her high heels because I am getting it from both looking at her lovely shoe and hearing the sound of her high heel well as she totters along, I love it so much . If the lady is attractive and has nice legs and is in a tight skirt it is not long before her shoes do it for me and finish me off. Also the shoe fronts are critically important. The short or French style point turns me on the most but I also like the almond style cut or even semi rounded. What really does it for me is when the cut is very deep and right down into her toe cleavage causing her foot to arch high over her lovely stiletto. I get so sexual over women in shoes like this and the feeling is so lovely. I should also say that I like black patent Mary Janes with a high heel of course and if the Mary Jane strap is diagonal that is even more stimulating. Anyway, to return to the original post in this thread, if your fetish is for ladies high heel court shoes, it is not normal but it is lovely and will enrich your sexual life and your love for ladies who wear heels.

Totally normal buddy. I too am extremely fussy about the women's boots I wear and am attracted to, we like what we like...
Relax and enjoy it

I hope it is the inner sole that feels the best. Yes I too have a shoe fetish. I found data looking up, shoe fetish boot fetish, that helped me to adjust to a normal social life and with my partner. Doing so has helped me and her to accept what and who I am.

This is a great set of comments. As a shoe fetishist myself I just adore women in great designer shoes, and yes, I can do them and do their shoes and love every minute with joy and pleasure.

I searched, shoe fetish boot fetish, together and found a lot of great data, stories, and comments on shoe fetish topics. There are a lot of people with this fetish and finding this research put together helped me to better understand and appreciate my own fetish.

To have a shoe fetish is normal because woman feet sometime is sexy. Man normally like opposite sex and like to imaging, if can't have the satisfaction of having sex with the woman, may turn to like part of the belonging items from the woman, it contain human smell. The smell may cause him to form up some imagination, I guess. But if the woman have hong kong feet, I think the guy will avoid smelling it, ha, ha.

I enjoy wearing over the knee flat boots. I really don't care wht people think. I haven't worn to work, but I know discrimination laws protect me.I enjoy the way they feel, but I will not lose my job. I wore to cfa, and no one really cared. I will wear to work soon, and fuck the opinion anyone that anyone has.

im a man with a fetish for high heels and away from work I wear high heels with a 5 or 6inch heel 80& of the time and love it I do wear them in public to

I can identify, practically on every detail, with the original poster. Pointy, closed-toe, closed heel stilettos are a major turn-on, even when the gal otherwise isn't all that attractive. Clunky heels, round toes, platforms, wedgies and all types of open-toe shoes (including sandals) are a total turn-off. Thus I'm clearly not into feet but rather what they're wearing and additionally how the gal is standing while I watch, intently fantasizing about her weight and which of her heels is bearing down the hardest while straining to support her. I also enjoy watching the outcome of an innocent heel as it unknowingly steps on and spikes something, leaving a permanent heel mark or visible damage from the focused pressure of the gal's stiletto heeled weight.

Last summer one of the gals in my office came to work on "casual Friday" wearing a skin-tight pair of jeans with black, over the knee leather boots sporting 4 inch pencil thin heels. I was totally mesmerized and couldn't stay focused on my work. I finally complimented her on them and asked where she got them. Thanking me for the compliment she said that they were actually several years old and the heel tips were needing replacement, as she raised one of her heels to show me the shiny little nail head sticking out. At this point my Johnson was at full attention and I very badly wanted a "souvenir". I just came right out and asked her if she would step on a pencil for me and she did it. She didn't break the pencil but it made a really awesome cracking and wood-splitting sound as she sank the tip of her heel into it. As she stepped on it she said "that's all 120 pounds of me." Probably needless to say at this point, but I and the pencil's splintered remains had to make a quick trip into the restroom...

I have the same fetish, and yes, i think it is normal.
whatever normal is. I believe it is ok, whatever floats your boat, as long as it does not cause any problems in your life, it will be ok.
don't let others EVER tell you it is wierd, it is just a part of you, maybe different from others, but not wrong.
i am learning to accept the different fetishes i have, and just tell myself that the fetish is just a part of me.
safe , sane and consensual sex is important.

With me it's classic black pumps, but I also like any sexy shoe on a woman. I don't like any woman that wears more than a size 39 Euro or 8 Australian. Smaller heels are so hot and the arch of the foot is very arousing. Something I have got into before with kinky girl friends who walked around later, feet sticky in the heels teasing me. I can't imagine NOT having a heels fetish???

I'm writing to late I guess but for what it is worth.

I think you have a very common fetish. Nothing to be ashamed of. In fact, certain types of very high pointy heels make a woman's legs look good, as long as she is wearing them.

I became so interested in heels myself that I would bye my girlfriends very high heels pumps and try to get them to wear them. I was too embarassed to admit how much I liked the shoes, but trust me it works. Cause a lot of women like shoes.

I even outdo you because in one extreme case, I had same shoe size as one of them and I actually got curious and started to wear her heels around the house and even in public but only at night where there weren't lots of people around and I didn't tell her. It takes some balance. It's actually not so bad. Easier than wearing a tie. If it were legal, I'd wear them a lot. Just watch out for stairs, sewer gates, and uneven surfaces. lol

There is nothing wrong with you this is a normal fetish its the same as seeing a pair of sexy knickers or a bra they are hot womens things and when Im shopping with my wife If I see a hot girl buying underwear I look at the underwear and it imagine in the girl and sometimes get a boner