I have a lot of fears. is it normal ?

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I was never this way. I think it started 4 years ago. I can't stand my heartbeat. I really can't. I can't stand to hear it when I'm running, showering, laying on my stomach or whenever else. I can't stand other people's heartbeat too. If I do hear it, I get really weak: I can't stand up and I can't even lift my arms.
I can't stand blood too. If I see a little amount of blood I get dizzy and weak. It's even worse when I have my period as I can't even see clearly or walk or anything else.
And that isn't all. I get really frightened when I hear the word sex. It's like the most horrifying thing in my world. I can't even imagine it nor do I want to. I'm 20 and I still can't imagine myself having sex. Never. I've always been scared of it and I'm a little worried because my friends say they like it and they make fun of me because they say I'm not normal and I act like a child .
Please help.

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  • Leloch
    8 years ago

    You should be a heart surgeon !

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    • ChoiJinsil15
      8 years ago

      I kind of wanna study psychology instead, as I can't stand blood

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      • thegypsysailor
        8 years ago

        Then you could become a sex therapist.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    I wouldn't necessarily agree that your fears are entirely normal, especially regarding you own menstrual blood. You know some men actually enjoy both vaginal and oral intercourse when their woman is on her period, right? My first love was like that, and we didn't have to about diseases, because we were both virgins.

    I'm truly sorry you're having this problem. At least you don't live in a really dry climate. I got the worst nosebleed last week. It didn't faze me, but it was difficult to stop, and I had blood dripping like a cut or something.

    I think it's shitty that your friends tease you about being afraid of sex. I think it's okay and dare I say good to live chaste, at least save yourself for someone you love. Don't worry about your so called friends, girls can be mean and catty sometimes. Additionally, don't be a afraid to find some nicer girls to be friends with.

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    • ChoiJinsil15
      8 years ago

      I agree they can be mean sometimes..
      Thank you very much

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    This sounds like anxiety and could also spiral into depression.

    Please seek professional help.

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    • ChoiJinsil15
      8 years ago

      Thank you very much

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  • mihir
    8 years ago

    I also have fears .. that.. will i achieve success in life , will i live a happy marry life
    Actually .. i have big fear that . When will i get rid of the financial problems..
    M 21

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