I like a younger guy but i'm afraid to date bc of the age gap? iin?

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Hes 21 and I'm 29.

I'm super interested in him. I work with him and hes really on the same page as me but I feel like I'm not allowed to be with him because of the age difference. Is it normal?

Hes incredibly mature, talks like hes 40 more than 21 and we really get along well. He doesnt look 21, more like mid 20s and dresses well. Has a personality I really like. Just overall a good dateable guy in my eyes but the age is holding me back.

One time I dated a man two years younger and I got a lot of flak for it in the beginning so a gap of 8 years will definitely cause issues.

I'm trying not to like him, I know he likes me because he made it clear but I havent told him because of fear with the age gap.

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Comments ( 9 )
  • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
    5 years ago

    Yes when I was 17 I lived with a 32 year old girlfriend. I dont find your age difference that bad. I say go for it

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  • brutus
    5 years ago

    Yes go for it.

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  • jethro
    5 years ago

    Ask this person:
    https://www.isitnormal.com/post/is-it-normal-to-love-older-women-280426

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  • JellyBeanBandit
    5 years ago

    That's not much of an age gap tbh.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    LOL OHHH NO NOT 21 WITH 29...

    There gonna chase you out of town with pitchforks and fire...

    Even when I'm 50 I'll date and have sex with any age that is an adult!

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  • Tealights
    5 years ago

    Go for it!

    Your happiness is all that matters and those who criticize you aren't thinking about your happiness. If you think this man can bring you more joy in your life, go for it.

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  • curious-bunny
    5 years ago

    That's not even a gap bitch please. My bf is 20 years older then me

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  • paramore93
    5 years ago

    Screw what anybody else thinks. If you guys like each other go for it :]

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  • trexagireve
    5 years ago

    Just fuck the young boy and don't tell anyone about

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