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I dont go to school or have a job. I stay inside all the time, i dont like people. I like to stay up all night playing video games and watching movies with my dog. I want to continue this lifestyle untill i die?
I feel the same way. I force myself to actually do stuff because I can't expect other people to support me, but in my gut I feel that society doesn't really deserve my effort, my ambition, my innovation. I haven't been treated well, and I don't really want to reward anyone for wanting to take advantage of me.
So everyone who thinks I should be a go-getter, who thinks I should build my little piece onto their empire, everyone who thinks I should be an obedient little cog in their money-making machine, can go STICK it.
I'll do what I have to do, when I have to do it. The rest of my time is MINE.
I have anxiety issues so I can't live how I would like but I don't want to hide away forever. I've already lost so much to my own fears and issues, like time and relationships. Being lonely might be easy to do but it's painful too.
Some people are not natural socialisers, and that's fine. But bear in mind that a time might well come when you want to hang out with other people, but don't know how to anymore.
At some point you will need to get a job. There are loads of crap minimum wage jobs that you can get where you don't need to yalk to people. You can't live your whole life like that, internet and food and utilities are too expensive for welfare, unless you have other problems which give you extra cash.
And us hard working NORMAL people, have to pay for people like you with our MONEY from OUR PAYCHECKS. I'd send lazy people that have no jobs or don't go to school and place themselves on welfare because they don't want to do anything productive to the army or pick up garbage in the streets. Oh if only I was elected to rule, shit would change.
I'm not sure when this was posted,it is now April 7,2013
It is NOT normal. These are symptoms of clinical depression or anxiety 1.Withdrawal from society 2.Irregular sleeping times 3.Not wanting to do anything, or feeling helpless.
Now, is it normal to Happen to anyone? YES.
I got out of this cycle through professional help,family and faith. Give it a try, the fact that you have post it here, clearly shows you know what is normal and what isn't.
Seek help, my life has changed , yours can too :)
It's ok to be a loner. You do need to study though. Study biology and organic chemistry. Become an expert in organic chemistry and learn how to synthesize all kinds of chemicals. Study what enzymes are in certain plants and what chemical reactions these enzymes perform. Identify these enzymes. Certain enzymes will perform chemical reactions that can't be replicated by chemicals (which is why it would be important to study biology). Being an expert organic chemist and knowing eznymes have very important implications. I understand how you don't like people because they take advantage of you. I know how it feels. That's why organic chemistry is perfect for you to learn. You'll be your own boss!
You can't continue life like this you need a purpose an incentive to wake up in the morning and do something. If you work talk to new people you feel good. If you laze around doing nothing how do you feel? When hardworking people out there try and your doing nothing how can you do this wasting life I'd say...
I never cared too much for socializing either, but once in a while I do find myself really "in need" of leaving the house just to get out for at least a little while. I might be content staying home, but when you think about it, its not exactly healthy. Its like you're neglecting your growth. Not only that, but I think it can cause mental illnesses.
And if one day, for some reason you were forced to go out back into the world, you would've lost your knowledge on 'how?'. You'd be in social settings not knowing how to be/act. You'd forget how to approach certain situations that people sometimes are faced with everyday. You'd be lost.
Well, you sound like my best friend!!! Miltos, could it possibly be you?!! LMAO, joking, he can't even afford an Internet connection so you're a 100% positive not him... You should really start socialising and taking life more seriously. Also if you play online CoD: Black Ops on PS3 feel free to add me to your PSN, lol! XDDD
your a legend wish i could do that ,you should live a little no ,,cod is god
Me too! But at least im looking for a job and spend my time more wisely than playing video games