I like this girl alot but she says she doesnt like me in the same way?

So I like this girl, and we've been friends for a long time.I've told her that I like her alot but she says she doesn't like me the same way.. But we're together were always holding hands,kissing, making out, dancing, and doing other stuff.. I'm confused is this normel for friends (boy,girl)?

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Comments ( 27 )
  • coagul

    Well, it's time to stop doing that with her.
    Seriously, you'll end that if you have a little bit of self-esteem.

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    • confusedashell98

      What do you mean by this

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  • Needtoknow73

    She's probably just taking the attention until something serious comes along

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    • confusedashell98

      What you suggest I do about this?

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      • VirgilManly

        Spend less time with her and more time with a girl who'll give you more love in return.

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  • confusedashell98

    I've figured that shes probably keeping me in a "safezone" "friendzone" so she can see if there's greener grass else where so to speak....

    Or she's in it for the attention and fun as stated in an earlier comment....

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  • Fall_leaves

    She probably likes the attention and when she does find what she wants you'll go back to just being her friend.

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    • confusedashell98

      Fair enough

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  • Statsmashers

    A typical Gold digger.
    It sounds like she cant survive or function without a man feeding her money.
    She just wants companionship and you to spend money on her and buy her material things.
    She is young , dumb , lonely , desperate , insecure , naive , no self esteem and she is afraid of being alone.

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    • confusedashell98

      I dont buy her anything at all

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      • Statsmashers

        You spend money on her.
        Same thing.
        Do you give her money ?

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        • confusedashell98

          No don't spend money on her at all

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          • Statsmashers

            Well , dancing and going to restaurants arent free.
            OBUMA Care isnt paying for those.

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  • lustyswandive

    Don't look the gift horse in the mouth.

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    • confusedashell98

      What you suggeat I do or say?

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  • Statsmashers

    She is using you.

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  • BlackyHancock

    you give to0 much and say too much... and she gives very little.

    change the balance, play a bit harder to get

    you sound too easy

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    • confusedashell98

      Damn.. Cheers I'll see how that goes...

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  • yu-gi-ohChampion25

    maybe she's undecided for now

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    • confusedashell98

      Im thinking that but she has made it pretty clear she's not interested in a relationship

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  • yourdeepestshame

    Cosby her.

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    • confusedashell98

      Hahaha lol nah I couldn't

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  • mysistersshadow

    I think shes messing with your head. Do you buy her stuff? If you do stop and see how much the affectionate play stops it it stops shes using you if not maybe shes as confused as you are but it doesn't sound normal to me.

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    • confusedashell98

      Nah not buying her stuff

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