I love cuddling/hugging best friend?

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I always cuddle with my best friend. I'm female and he's male. I'm bisexual, and he's gay. But whenever we see each other he literally tackle hugs me and just stays on me for the next minute or so. And if we're sat down, we usually cuddle, have our heads together, or he'll lay down on me/whatever. (absolutely nothing sexual though) He tends to kiss my cheek a lot as well. If we're near each other, chances are we're touching somehow. Even if it's just our hands. We tend to walk around holding hands, and he sometimes puts his arms around my waist/whatever and we just stay like that. Sometimes we just lay in bed together and cuddle for hours, just softly talking together about.. life. And our future and stuff. :/ Is this normal? We're not attracted to eachother or anything. We're just.. weirdly close.

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    Sorta an anime-esque situation you got with your "tackle hugs" and hours of cuddling which seems sort of boring. This whole post actually has a fangirlish vibe to it.

    Anyway, seems like a waste of obvious romantic time to go towards nothing, you're basically dating, just make it official and drop the friend guard, you'll probably be happier that way. If you have no plan to be in a relationship, it's just wasted time. In /my own opinion/ nobody is 100% strict straight or 100% strict gay.

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    • Ellenna
      7 years ago

      It's obvious they are in a relationship, they just don't fuck and don't want to and that's fine.

      And again, they are in fact being romantic, they're just not fucking.

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      • [Old Memory]
        7 years ago

        A relationship is only a relationship if it's mutually declared to be one by the participants. These two are not in a relationship as OP has stated. I didn't mean that they need to have sex, I just mean they should be declaring it to be what it is. Sex isn't required for a relationship to be a relationship. But it's obviously a romantic friendship, which never works.

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        • Ellenna
          7 years ago

          Never? Well that's not true, women especially have romantic friendships which can last for years.

          It's not necessary to declaring oneself to be in a relationship, for it to be a relationship: who invented that rule?

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  • CreamPuffs
    7 years ago

    I'd say it's pretty normal. You and him are obviously very affectionate.

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  • rltg4711
    7 years ago

    Hugs and cuddles are beautiful things. Especially the simple friendship ones. The innocent ones that have no connotation of sex attached. Such an embrace can turn an ordinary day into a most fabulous day.

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    • peterrabbyt69
      7 years ago

      And if you sucked my cock if would be wonderful, secen inches cut!

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  • Hey_guys_its_me
    7 years ago

    That's cute amd fine, just be careful of future partners being jealous of you two

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  • paulthepoes
    7 years ago

    He is pretending to be Gay to get close to you!

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    • princetou
      7 years ago

      I'm pretty sure he's gay.. We've been close friends for ages and he's absolutely disgusted by the naked female body to the point where he could literally throw up if he sees it. :"D He also never shuts up about hot guys

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    • arthurtheaardvark99
      7 years ago

      lol great idea! next time she should check his pants to see if he's getting "excited" : >

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    Sounds lovely to me!

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